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Noldin, Summa of Moral Theology
Vol. III, Book Eight. On Matrimony., Question Eight. On the For…, Article Three. On the Contracting Parties.
655. Declaration. From the contracting parties it is required:
- That they be in the state of grace, because they receive a sacrament of the living. Therefore particular statutes sometimes prescribe that confession be premised to matrimony; nevertheless, by universal law it is not prescribed that they procure the state of grace for themselves rather through confession than through perfect contrition. For the Council of Trent only exhorts spouses to confess before matrimony.1
He does not sin: a. who contracts matrimony with a partner whom he knows to be in the state of mortal sin; for the notable utility which matrimony brings excuses this material cooperation.2
Nor does he sin: b. who administers the sacrament of matrimony to an unworthy partner, because he is not held to take care that the sacrament not be administered to the unworthy: for he does not act as a public person, who by force of his office must attend to the dispositions of the recipient, but he is a private person celebrating a contract, who by force of his office attends only to his own utility.3
- That they receive the nuptial blessing. For although the Church does not prescribe it to those about to marry, nevertheless she earnestly desires that they ask for it and receive it.4
a. By the name of nuptial blessing are designated the three prayers which are contained in the Missal in the Mass for spouses; two of these are recited over the spouses after the Our Father, and the third after the Ite missa est or Benedicamus Domino. Since the nuptial blessing cannot be separated from the Mass for spouses, those about to marry are to be admonished to celebrate the nuptials in the morning, when Mass can be said.
b. If those about to marry have not received the nuptial blessing from whatever cause (e.g. because they celebrated the nuptials in the closed time, because at the celebration of the nuptials Mass could not be said), care must be taken that they receive it afterward at a suitable time, even if they have already lived in matrimony.5 But if the spouses cannot be brought to celebrate the nuptials at a time when Mass can be said, the blessing is granted to them outside Mass, yet not according to the form which is contained in the Mass for spouses, but according to the form which exists in the Roman Ritual or in the diocesan Ritual.
1 Sess. 24, c. 1, De reform. matr.
2 Cf. De Praeceptis, n. 118.
3 Cf. Lugo, De sacram. in genere, disp. 8, sect. 14, n. 230.
4 Cn. 1101, 1.
5 Cn. 1001, 1.
McHugh–Callan, Moral Theology
Vol. II, Pt. II, Q. IV, Art. 4. Holy Orders; Matri…, The Elements of Matrimony as a Contract
The Elements of the Contract of Marriage
The Elements of the Contract of Marriage.—(a) The subject-matter of the contract is the conjugal right or the lawful power of exercising with the other party acts suitable for generation.
(b) The ends of the contract are, primarily, the good of the race and of the children, and secondarily the good of the couple through mutual assistance and protection in spiritual and temporal matters. To these general ends may be added others which a particular person has in view, such as dignity, wealth, honor, lawful pleasure.
(c) The essence of the contract is the consent, for every pact consists in mutual agreement. But if marriage be regarded as a permanent state, its essence is the bond of union, and consent is the efficient cause productive of the bond. Marriage consent must have the qualities (internal, external, mutual, free) that are necessary in every contract, as explained in 1883.
Requirements for Valid Marriage Consent
Requirements for Valid Marriage Consent.—(a) Internal Consent.—If both or one of the parties internally and positively wills to exclude marriage, or the right to the conjugal act, or an essential property of marriage, the contract is null, since there is no purpose to contract a real marriage. Similarly, if both or one of the parties negatively (or by lack of all intention) excludes consent, there is no marriage. It should be noted that he who intends to get a divorce later on does not intend a permanent union or marriage, whereas he who intends to be unfaithful or to practise onanism may nevertheless intend to oblige himself to the duties of fidelity and of the lawful use of marriage, and therefore to a true marriage. Fictitious consent, unless a serious reason excuses (e.g., when one is forced under grave fear to marry, when one becomes aware of a diriment impediment at the altar and cannot retire without great scandal), is a mortal sin, as being a lie in a very important matter and an injustice. If the other party was deceived, the party guilty of feigned consent is bound to make reparation for the damage done, and, unless the marriage has become impossible or inadvisable, the means of reparation should be a genuine consent revalidating the marriage. This is especially true when there is a conflict between the internal and the external forums on account of the inability to establish juridically the nullity of the invalid marriage.
(b) External Consent.—Both as contract and as Sacrament, matrimony requires some sensible manifestation of the internal consent. Since the contract of marriage between Christians falls under the jurisdiction of the Church, the manner of expressing the consent is regulated by Canon Law. The solemnities required for valid and lawful marriage will be treated below in 2826, 2827.
(c) Mutual Consent.—Both parties must agree to the marriage, since no one is obliged by a contract without his consent. But mutuality does not imply simultaneity, for, if the previous consent given by one party continues, the subsequent consent given by the other is joined to it and the consent becomes mutual.
(d) Free Consent.—If every contract must be deliberate and voluntary, this is especially true in the case of marriage, since it entails very heavy duties and its obligations are lifelong (cfr. 2195). In marriage there must be full and perfect consent, though it is not necessary that one think expressly on the essentials of the contract when assenting to it.
Defects in Consent
Defects in Consent.—Consent supposes sufficient knowledge, and hence it may be vitiated by a defect as to knowledge.
(a) Mental Derangement.—Those who are not in possession of their mental faculties cannot marry, whether the derangement be habitual (e.g., idiots, the completely insane, monomaniacs on the subject of marriage) or actual (e.g., infants, those who are completely drunk or doped, the hypnotized or delirious, somnambulists). But defectives who are not unbalanced all the time or on all subjects, may be able now and then to realize the meaning of marriage and to give deliberate consent, though the presumption is against them. Those whose mentality is of a low grade, but who are able to judge and reason correctly (e.g., stupid persons, the deaf and dumb, or blind), and those who have some little fanaticism or eccentricity are not excluded; otherwise very few of either sex could marry.
(b) Ignorance.—Substantial ignorance, or the absence of knowledge about the essentials of marriage (viz., that it is a permanent association of man and woman for the purpose of raising children of their own), makes the contract null, for one does not consent to what one does not know. Accidental ignorance, on the contrary, does not nullify, for he who understands the main facts about marriage can intend to contract it as others do, even though he does not know its details or secondary features. Ignorance invalidates marriage, therefore, if one of the parties does not know that marriage is meant for the procreation of children or that children are procreated by carnal intercourse; but it does not invalidate if the parties are ignorant about physiology or scientific explanations. Substantial ignorance in persons of marriageable age (especially young women) is not uncommon even in these days, but it is not presumed after puberty (Canon 1082, Sec.2).
(c) Error.—Error which excludes consent to the essential object of the contract nullifies, and hence a substantial error about the person with whom one is contracting makes marriage of no effect (e.g., if Titus thinks he is marrying Claudia, but is really marrying her twin sister, Sempronia; if Balbus intends to marry Caia only on condition that she is a virgin and she is not a virgin; if Julius intends to marry the woman who is present solely as differentiated by a personal or individual characteristic which he mistakenly believes her to have, such as seniority among her sisters). Error which does not prevent essential consent does not nullify the contract. Hence, a mere accidental error about the other party (e.g., Titus marries Claudia, thinking she is rich, whereas she is poor, and he would never have married her had he known her poverty) does not make marriage null, though the Church makes the marriage of no effect when a slave is married in the belief that he or she is free (Canon 1083, Sec.2, n, 2). A mere speculative error about the properties of marriage (e.g., if one believes that marriage may be lawfully dissolved for adultery) or about the validity of one’s own marriage (e.g., if the bride erroneously believes that the marriage she is contracting is null) does not deprive the contract of its force, if there is really a purpose to marry as best one may; for such an error does not act upon the will or take away consent.
Forced Consent
Forced Consent.—Consent also supposes self-determination, and hence in certain cases force or fear makes a marriage null and unlawful.
(a) Effect on Validity.—Coercion nullifies marriage from natural law, when overpowering physical might extorts an external assent, or when moral violence so terrifies as to unsettle the reason; from church law at least, when being grave, external and unjustly caused, it compels one to marry in order to escape the evil it inflicts or threatens. In other cases fear does not void marriage, even though it be the cause of the contract, as when the fear is slight, or when it is induced by shipwreck or by the fear of sin, or when a seducer marries only because he is threatened with prosecution unless he marries the girl whom he seduced.
(b) Effect on Lawfulness.—He who by intimidation impels another to marry, sins gravely if the fear is unjust and grave, or unjust and productive of serious evils; he sins venially if the fear, though unjust, is light and not productive of serious evils; he sins not at all; if the fear is justly caused, unless he offends charity by his manner of acting; revengeful spirit, etc. He who marries knowing that the other party is forced into the contract, is guilty of serious injustice; and he who marries unwillingly, but with the purpose to live as if he were validly married, sins gravely by his will to live in impurity.
Conditional Consent
Conditional Consent.—Conditional consent is that in which the agreement to marriage is made dependent on some fact or event.
(a) A condition makes marriage invalid if it neutralizes consent (e.g., if the condition is de praesenti but unfulfilled; if it is de futuro and against the substance of marriage; if it is impossible but seriously added); it suspends marriage if it is de futuro, possible, and not against the substance of marriage; it neither nullifies nor suspends if it is de praesenti or de praeterito and fulfilled. In law the presumption is that de futuro necessary or impossible conditions and shameful conditions are not serious, or are modes rather than conditions (see 1886), and of course in the external forum invalidity on account of a condition has to be proved. Conditions against the substance of marriage are such as deny essential conjugal rights or duties (i.e., the right to have conjugal intercourse, the duty of fidelity to the consort, of loyalty to the bond); but they should not be confused with the purpose to violate marriage engagements, or with a resolution, or a vow, or a pact in the form of a mode, not to make use of the right to conjugal intercourse.
(b) A condition added to marriage consent is gravely sinful, unless there is a very urgent reason for it; otherwise most serious evils would result. Moreover, there is responsibility in justice for culpable damages, as when one party gives consent conditionally without the knowledge or against the will of the other party. A suspensive condition (e.g., “if my parents will consent”) is regularly unlawful without the bishop’s permission, and marriage rights may not be used in a marriage dependent on a condition whose fulfillment is not known to the parties. It is unlawful to make a vow or promise of chastity in the married life unless there is moral certainty that it will be kept.
Bucceroni, Moral Enchiridion (4th ed., 1905)
Bucceroni, Moral Enchiridion (4th ed., 1905), On Matrimony
The Consent of the Contracting Parties Is Required and Suffices
“According to the laws, the consent alone of those whose union is in question suffices; and if this consent alone should happen to be lacking in the nuptials, all the other things performed, even together with intercourse itself, are rendered fruitless.” Nicholas I, from the Responses to the Consultations of the Bulgarians, chapter 3.
“A firm and valid Matrimony exists whenever nods or ceremonies performed before witnesses, according to the common estimation of the religion, sufficiently express the mutual present consent of the spouses, and when, moreover (if the question concerns places in which the Tridentine law has been published), a missionary cannot conveniently be had. But if the contracting parties, or either one of them, in ceremonies performed according to the custom of the country, truly did not have the intention or will of contracting in the present, the Matrimony is null.” Holy Office, 22 August 1860.
“Amalia, an unbaptized Protestant, married Giovanni, a Protestant; during the Marriage, Amalia was baptized in Protestantism and lived with her husband for some time. Subsequently, Amalia learned that Giovanni had illicit relations with a woman; she therefore abandoned him, and after some time obtained from the civil tribunal a divorce on the ground of adultery on the part of the husband. Now Amalia asks permission to contract a second Marriage with a Catholic.
“It should be noted that Protestants do not know that a Marriage between a baptized man and an unbaptized woman is null.
“These things having been stated, the Archbishop N. N., prostrate at the feet of Your Holiness, humbly asks:
“Given the ignorance of the nullity of the Marriage on the ground of disparity of worship, did the marital life of Amalia with Giovanni revalidate the Marriage after Amalia’s baptism?
“Response. After an oath has first been taken by Amalia in the Curia of N. N., by which she declares that the Marriage contracted with Giovanni, after the baptism of Amalia herself, was not ratified by them with knowledge of its nullity, in a place where clandestine or mixed Marriages are held valid, and provided that the Most Reverend Lord Archbishop is morally certain concerning the asserted ignorance of the spouses about the impediment of disparity of worship, let a document of freedom on the ground of disparity of worship be given to the woman.” Holy Office, 8 March 1899.
Tanquerey
Vol. I, Matrimony, and Holy Orders, On Marriage (Volume I), Chapter I: On Marriage as Contract
On Marriage as Contract
- Errors to be refuted. Today errors concerning the matrimonial contract are multiplying. (a) Many, especially evolutionists and materialists, holding that man descends from a brute animal, contend that promiscuity prevailed among the first men, as among the other living things, so that men were mingled indiscriminately with women and women with men, as occasion presented itself; and that to this promiscuity succeeded polygamy and polyandry, and only after long ages did monogamy prevail.1 (b) Yet many moderns, even among evolutionists, admit that monogamy is more perfect than the other matrimonial contracts, and therefore is to be retained, provided, however, that divorce be easily admitted, and that it be permitted to spouses thus separated to seek new nuptials.2 (c) Yet not a few, especially among socialists, favor free union: according to them, the chief end of union between man and woman is mutual pleasure; therefore for this union mutual love is required and suffices: those who mutually love each other, by that very fact, have the right to cohabit together; when love ceases, the union must be broken off. But the offspring born from free union will be nourished and educated by the care of the civil State, without the intervention of the parents.3
1 Lubbock, The origin of civilization; Morgan, Systems of consanguinity, affinity and of the human family; Mac Lennan, Studies in ancient history comprising a reprint of Primitive marriage, London and New York, 1886; Giraud-Teulon, Les origines du Mariage et de la famille, Geneva and Paris, 1884.
2 Thus, among others, Naquet, Dumas, Paul and Victor Margueritte, and others enumerated below where divorce is treated.
3 A. Bebel, La femme dans le passé, le présent et l'avenir (translated from German by H. Ravé), 1891; B. Malon, Le socialisme intégral, Paris, 1892, vol. I, ch. 7; G. Renard, Le régime socialiste, 1898, p. 59; Ch. Albert, L'amour libre, Paris, 1900; and others whom Turgeon enumerates, Le Féminisme français, Paris, 1902, vol. II, pp. 259-288.
Against these errors we shall set forth Catholic doctrine: 1° concerning the nature; 2° concerning the properties of the matrimonial contract.
§ II. On the Essence of the Matrimonial Contract
- Preliminary notes. From what has already been said it is permitted to infer that the essence of marriage, as contract, consists in mutual consent, by which a man and a woman, otherwise capable of marriage, hand over to each other in the present2 a stable right over the body of the other for generating offspring, and for the fellowship of common life. Consequently the matrimonial contract does not consist directly in use or copula, but in the consent by which the right to copula is handed over. For, as St. Thomas rightly observes, "one does not receive power over that which is freely another's except through his consent. But, through matrimony, each spouse receives power over the body of the other... since previously each had free power of his own body. Therefore consent makes marriage."
1 St. Thomas, Supplem., q. 45-48; Sanchez, lib. II-V; Salmantic., cap. 6-7; Billuart, diss. III, a. 1-5; St. Alphonsus, nn. 885-896; Carrière, nn. 455-505; Gasparri, nn. 770-870; Rosset, vol. I, nn. 88-237; Pesch, nn. 731-752; Billot, th. 34-35; Ball. P., nn. 262-305 (3rd ed.); Wernz, S.J., Jus Decretal., vol. IV, Jus Matrimoniale, Rome, 1904, nn. 45-47 and nn. 291-306.
2 It is said in the present, because consent concerning the future indeed suffices for betrothals, but not for marriage.
- Certain ancient authors taught that copula is necessary for constituting perfect marriage: "It must be known," says Gratian,3 "that marriage is begun in betrothal, perfected in commingling. Whence between bridegroom and bride there is marriage, but begun; between those joined by copula there is ratified marriage." A few commentators of Gratian proceeded further, teaching that copula is required for the essence of marriage. Freisen renewed this opinion, writing that the matrimonial contract is nothing other than a promise of future copula, and therefore does not differ from betrothals; but marriage properly so called is made through copula had with marital affection.4 - It is indeed true that marriage simply ratified is not so perfectly indissoluble as consummated marriage, as will be said below; yet it is true marriage and properly so called, as the common and certain opinion holds. (a) For the Fathers often teach this, when they write that Mary and Joseph were truly spouses, although they never used marriage: thus, for example, Origen, St. Basil, St. Ambrose, St. Jerome, St. Augustine;1 hence Benedict XIV says: "Those who affirm that the marriage of the Blessed Virgin with St. Joseph consisted only in betrothals, think rashly and falsely. Therefore it must be held as certain that the marriage contracted between them was true and ratified."2 (b) Pontiffs and Councils teach the same expressly, when they establish that marriage is perfected by the free consent of the contracting parties. Thus Nicholas I:3 "Let the consent alone of those concerning whose unions there is question suffice according to the laws. If this consent alone perhaps has been lacking in nuptials, the rest, even celebrated with intercourse itself, is frustrated, John Chrysostom, the great Doctor, bearing witness, who says: intercourse does not make marriage, but will." To the point is Trent:4 "There is no doubt that clandestine marriages made by the free consent of the contracting parties are ratified and true marriages." Afterwards it declares that ratified marriage, not consummated, is dissolved by solemn profession of religion; now a contract is not dissolved unless it already exists.
3 Dictum in Caus. 27, q. 2, c. 34; cf. c. 45. - There the word ratified from the context seems to signify a marriage which cannot be dissolved in any way.
4 Archiv für kathol. Kirchenrecht, LIV, 1885, p. 361 sq. - Yet he later retracted this error in the same periodical, LXVII, 1892, p. 381 sq.
1 Origen, homil. VI on Luke, P. G., vol. XIII, p. 1814 sq.; St. Basil, De sancta Christi generatione, nn. 3-5, P. G., vol. XXXI, pp. 1463-1467; St. Ambrose, De instit. virg., c. 6, n. 42, P. L., vol. XVI, p. 316; St. Jerome, Contra Helvid., n. 4, P. L., vol. XXIII, p. 185; St. Augustine, De nuptiis et concup., l. I, n. 12, P. L., vol. XLIV, p. 420.
2 De Synodo dioeces., l. XIII, c. 32, n. 13.
3 In Mansi, Concilia, vol. XV, p. 403.
4 Trent, Sess. XXIV, de Reformat. matrim., c. 1.
It remains, therefore, that we accurately declare the qualities of matrimonial consent; therefore we shall speak: 1° on the endowments of this consent in general; 2° on conditioned consent in particular.
Vermeersch, Theologia Moralis
Vol. III, Bk. II, Tr. VIII, Chapter I: On Matrimonial Consent
Order of discussion. We must treat briefly, imitating the Code, of the notion and necessity of consent, of the conditions necessary for consent, of the mode in which it can be given, and of its perseverance.
— I. Notion and necessity of consent. 1. "Matrimonial consent is an act of the will by which each party gives and accepts the perpetual and exclusive right over the body, in order to acts of themselves apt for the generation of offspring" (c. 1081, §2).
- But consent can be supplied by no human power, since the sole cause of matrimony is the consent of the parties (c. 1081, §1).
Consent, moreover, is required to be: a) true: feigned consent cannot suffice; that which is feigned to be present is not truly present; b) mutual: each party gives and accepts the body of the other; c) it must give and accept a right over the body, perpetual and exclusive: perpetual, because matrimony is indissoluble; exclusive, because matrimony is of one man with one woman; d) it gives and accepts in order to acts of themselves apt, etc., but not for having offspring expressly and immediately (cf. St. Thomas, Suppl., q. 49, art. 3, c.). From this description are known the conditions contrary to the substance of matrimony: they are opposed to the perpetuity, to the unity of matrimony, to natural copula, and to offspring itself, not to be positively impeded in the use of marriage.
- What knowledge is required that this consent can be given, we are taught by c. 1082, which nevertheless does not say that what it indicates to be necessary already always suffices. Therefore, at least it is required that matrimony be known to be a stable or permanent society between persons of diverse sex, and this for procreating children. Once the primary end of matrimony is known, the object of matrimony is already reached, which consists in acts of themselves apt for generation. Moreover, matrimony must be known to be a society for procreating children, not simply for obtaining them by some means: therefore it is necessary that the contracting parties know that this happens by some common work, perhaps not distinctly perceived. But one who is content with a confused notion virtually accepts the mode which must be used; let him impute it to himself if later it is discerned to be such as he would not have admitted. But this notion of matrimony would not suffice, by which it would be conceived as a mutual contract for educating together children bought in a market or fallen from heaven.
And since the proximate matter of the contract and sacrament is the handing over of the body for generative acts, with Vlaming, II, 523; Linneborn, §36, p. 269, we judge that, in some rare case, substantial consent can be lacking in a person who did not know that concession to the use of one's own body is contained in matrimony, and who abhorred a concession of this kind more than he admitted conjugal life. Gasparri himself requires that it be known that a man procreates children from a wife. But proof of that ignorance and of a prevailing will will be very laborious in the external forum.
But this ignorance of the nature or object of the contract is not presumed after puberty, but must be proved (c. 1082, §2).
By this canon it is also demonstrated that the reticence of parents is harmful, who deceive marriageable daughters by an artificial ignorance, and rashly hand them over to a bridegroom, often little pious, to be used or abused.
— II. Conditions of consent. Besides the truth of consent, there is also required its immunity from certain vices.
- First, from error. Yet not every error renders matrimony invalid, but only that error which, with attention to the nature of the contract, is reputed substantial. But although it is to be desired above all that the contract, upon which the morally whole lot of several human persons depends, be infected by no error, nevertheless the necessary stability of a contract whose consequences are irreparable requires that very few causes of nullity have force to invalidate it. Wherefore, besides error, necessarily substantial, concerning the object of the contract, only a threefold error substantially vitiates consent:
a) error concerning the very person to whom one gives faith: concerning the person, that is, not concerning the name or riches, but concerning his or her individual identity, so that one thinks he is contracting with Peter while it is Paul, or with the elder child of such a family, while it is the younger child. This would no longer be that error if he intended to make a pact with the person present, whoever that person may be;
b) error concerning a quality which redounds into error of person. For of itself error concerning a physical, intellectual, or moral quality does not stand in the way of validity. But error concerning a quality which has been expressly required as a condition without which not, redounds into error of person. For if the condition is lacking, no consent of itself is had;
c) error of servile condition, or concerning the freedom of the person, if a free person (therefore not if a slave) contracts with a person whom he thinks free, whether freeborn or emancipated, while that person is held by servitude properly so called.
No other error essentially vitiates matrimonial consent.
Not simple error (if fear is added, or contrary will, see below) concerning the unity of matrimony, or indissolubility, or sacramental dignity (c. 1084); not error concerning virginity, virtue, disposition, riches, nobility of the person, or concerning the paternity of a conceived child, by reason of which matrimony is contracted. Nor does it matter that the error gave cause to the contract, or was mixed with deceit or fraud.
— 2. Consent is required immune from fiction. We have already warned above that feigned consent is altogether ineffective. But internal consent is always presumed to have been conformed to the words or signs.
But, besides the subjectively complete fiction of him who wills nothing, there is a partial fiction from the object, when consent is borne only to an object or contract substantially diverse. Wherefore, "if either or both parties by a positive act of the will exclude matrimony itself, or every right to the conjugal act, or some essential property of matrimony, he contracts invalidly" (c. 1086, §2). Every right to the conjugal act is excluded if she who is named a wife, in the manner of a concubine, can complain of no injury if, even without cause, she is dismissed. Not every right is excluded if it is conceded limited in time or subordinated to the condition of fidelity, etc. But then an essential property of matrimony can easily be excluded. But the excluding will is supposed to be efficacious, which is not destroyed by a contrary prevailing will, as if one should will matrimony, and at the same time that it be dissoluble, while ignorant of the indissolubility of matrimony. Cf. what is to be said below, n. 791, concerning conditional will.
— 3. Consent is demanded immune from a certain force and fear. Not every fear, even one which gives cause to the contract, brings with it the nullity of matrimony, but only force or grave fear inflicted from without and unjustly, from which, that one may free himself, he is compelled to choose matrimony (c. 1087). Therefore invalidating fear must satisfy these conditions:
a) force, under which name comes not only violence strictly so called, but every free extrinsic cause which produces fear, must have effected grave fear, whether such absolutely, which falls upon a steadfast man, or at least such relatively. Grave is that which is overcome with difficulty. Such can be even reverential fear, or the fear of offending persons to whom reverence is owed, especially parents, if threats, importunate prayers, etc., are added;
b) fear must be unjustly inflicted. But it can be unjust from the object or cause, as if the one instilling fear can exact nothing, or at least can in no way exact matrimony; and unjust from the mode alone, as if he cannot legitimately command matrimony in that way. Suppose the father of a deflowered virgin threatens death unless the deflowerer takes her as wife. Indeed, since now no action is given for exacting matrimony itself, every fear inflicted for obtaining matrimony must be called unjust;
c) no other option besides matrimony must have been available to the one suffering fear. This can happen even if the fear was inflicted for another end. Suppose an angry man who wishes to avenge some injury by atrocious revenge; and no other escape appears to a rich young man except the promise of taking the aggressor's daughter.
By what law force and grave fear invalidate matrimony is disputed. Many think this impediment is established by positive law alone, although it is altogether consonant with the wishes of nature. For he who consents from fear nevertheless truly furnishes internal consent; and he could have escaped the necessity itself by feigning consent. Yet others think it repugnant to natural law itself that consent unjustly coerced be sanctioned by the most grave obligation of perpetual matrimony. Grave reasons indeed are alleged for each side. Even one who in a general way admits that acts from grave and unjustly inflicted fear are valid, as c. 103, §1 itself declares, can without absurdity maintain an exception for this contract-sacrament, to which it is so necessary that it be done freely. Nevertheless we shall incline toward the former side. For if it were an impediment of natural law, human positive law seems not to have been going to define so rigorously the conditions of invalidating fear. For that these embrace the whole force of the natural impediment would be difficult to demonstrate.
— III. Presence of the contracting parties. By the positive law of the Code the celebration of matrimony between absent persons, or by letters, is excluded.
The contracting parties, however, can be present either personally or through a procurator (c. 1088). A special mandate is required, given in writing and subscribed as sponsals are, except that, in the present case, the pastor or local Ordinary can delegate a priest to subscribe. The competent Ordinary is the Ordinary of the place in which the mandate is made. If the mandating person does not know how to write, those things are to be observed which are prescribed when the party who promises marriage is ignorant of letters. If the mandating person has revoked the mandate before the marriage, or has fallen into insanity, the procurator, even ignorant of the matter, can no longer contract a valid matrimony for the mandating person. And for validity it is necessary that the procurator execute the mandate personally (c. 1089).
Besides, diocesan statutes concerning the procurator, if any exist, are to be observed. But, contrary to what Noldin, III, 611, thinks, this is not a condition of validity, since Ordinaries cannot fortify their prescriptions or prohibitions concerning matrimony with the sanction of nullity. Cerato, n. 85; Cappello, III, 619, agree.
Matrimony can also be contracted through an interpreter.
The pastor is not to assist at a marriage through a procurator or through an interpreter unless a just cause is present, there is no doubt concerning the authenticity of the mandate or concerning the trustworthiness of the interpreter, and, if time permits, the license of the Ordinary has been obtained.
Both the spouses themselves and the procurator are to express matrimonial consent by words; nor, if they can speak, can they licitly use equivalent signs.
Signs, however, suffice for validity. And thus the whole ceremony sufficiently manifests the consent to the witnesses, even if, because of a certain timidity, the bride does not pronounce in an intelligible tone the single affirmative word which the Roman Ritual demands. For the rest, the Ritual, tit. VII, c. 2, n. 2, did not require anything except some sensible sign expressing consent.
— IV. Conditioned matrimony. Like every contract, matrimony can be made conditionally. Yet this is proper to matrimony, that conditioned consent can always validly be revoked, and that another matrimony contracted absolutely before the condition arrives is valid.
Concerning the difficulty which arises from the efficacy of that illicit retraction before the condition has been purified, the Epitome, II, n. 381, III, can be consulted.
Concerning an appended condition the Code briefly proposes these things:
- A future condition which is necessary, or impossible, or base, but not contrary to the substance of matrimony, is considered as not added.
Yet the intention of the parties must be observed, who could, through a necessary future condition, defer the very celebration of matrimony to the day on which it has been fulfilled, or clothe a will of not contracting with an impossible condition.
- A future condition contrary to the substance of matrimony renders it invalid.
Here a condition deduced into the pact must be carefully distinguished from a condition simply conceived. Because, when the condition enters the pact itself, the expressed consent itself is not consent of a true matrimony; matrimony never has validity. For merely internal consent cannot be mutual. And therefore there was declared null the marriage of a non-Catholic, in whose celebration there was read the Gospel by which non-Catholics rely upon admitting perfect divorce in the case of adultery.
But where it has not been deduced into the pact, judgment must be made concerning the validity of matrimony according to the prevailing will.
Finally, a condition must be carefully distinguished from purposes, even mutual ones, of violating the laws of matrimony by adulterous or neo-Malthusian abuse. Indeed, most often those "conventions broadly so called" about avoiding offspring for the first year, etc., are not to be held as true conditions, nor do they impede the validity of matrimony, which was contracted absolutely.
Is a condition appended, indeed deduced into the pact, of preserving continence, repugnant to the substance of matrimony? Although several think that this is repugnant, nevertheless it seems it must be denied, because the right is one thing, the use of the right another. A pact of not using does not take away or impede the handing over of the right, which alone is essential (cf. Noldin, III, 613).
A licit future condition suspends the contract. When the condition arrives, matrimony is perfected, and is judged to have had its beginning from the day of the conditioned contract.
A condition concerning the past or the present makes matrimony valid or not, according as that which is subject to the condition exists or not (c. 1092, 4°).
— On the perseverance of consent. "Even if matrimony was invalidly entered by reason of an impediment, the consent furnished is presumed to persevere, until its revocation has been established" (c. 1093).
This must be carefully noted for the convalidation of matrimony invalidly celebrated.
Summary
— I. Consent is required to be true, mutual, which gives and accepts a perpetual and exclusive right over the body, in order to acts of themselves apt for the generation of offspring (c. 1081). It can be supplied by no human power. Therefore matrimony must be known at least as a stable society between persons of diverse sex, and this for procreating children, by some common work.
It must besides be immune from substantial error, i.e., here, from error concerning the individual identity of the person with whom one contracts; concerning a quality which has been expressly required as a condition sine qua non; concerning servile condition, if the other contracting party is a free person.
It must also be immune from grave fear unjustly inflicted, at least as regards the mode, and "from which, that one may free himself, he is compelled to choose matrimony."
II. It can be made under a licit future condition, and then it suspends the contract, which, once the condition is fulfilled, passes into the absolute. Meanwhile, however, the condition being disregarded, one validly marries another.
A future condition which is necessary or impossible or base but not contrary to the substance of matrimony is considered as not added. If it is future and contrary to the substance of matrimony (offspring, fidelity, or sacrament), it renders it invalid, when it has been deduced into the pact, or prevails over the will of matrimony.
Purposes, even mutual ones, of violating matrimonial duties must be carefully distinguished from a condition.
III. Consent is not necessarily impeded by knowledge of nullity; and once given it is presumed to persevere, until it has been revoked.
IV. Consent must be given between persons present, and therefore matrimony by letters is excluded, but not matrimony through a procurator or through an interpreter. But if time permits, the Ordinary must be consulted. And for liceity consent must be expressed by words.
Prümmer, Manuale Theologiae Moralis
Vol. III, Pt. II, Tr. X, Ch. I, Article II. On The Intrinsic Nature Of The Matrimonial Contract · Vol. III, Pt. II, Tr. X, Chapter VII. On Matrimonial Consent · Vol. III, Pt. II, Tr. X, Ch. VII, Article I. On Matrimonial Consent and Its Qualities · Vol. III, Pt. II, Tr. X, Ch. VII, Art. I, § 1. On the Qualities of Matrimonial Consent · Vol. III, Pt. II, Tr. X, Ch. VII, Article II. On Defects of Matrimonial Consent
Vol. III, Pt. II, Tr. X, Ch. I, Article II. On The Intrinsic Nature Of The Matrimonial Contract
630. Since every good definition ought adequately to describe the essence of the thing defined, after the definition of matrimony has been explained, the question is proposed by authors: what properly is the formal constitutive of matrimony, or what primarily and fundamentally constitutes the essence of matrimony. Two theories have been devised to resolve this question, namely, the copular theory and the consensual theory. The former teaches that the essence of matrimony consists in the union of bodies, that is, in carnal intercourse itself, so that matrimony is not a true and perfect matrimony before carnal intercourse has been performed. Thus teach Julian, the disciple of Pelagius, Hincmar of Reims, Gratian, John Wycliffe, several Protestants, John of Faenza, and perhaps certain other ancient Catholics cited by Freisen,48 who himself also defended this theory, but afterward (in 1892) retracted it, at least in some manner. The second theory asserts that the essence of matrimony consists in the union of wills, that is, in the consent of the contracting parties, and consequently that a true and perfect matrimony exists even if carnal intercourse is not had between the spouses. Almost all Catholics now teach thus. To elucidate this matter we posit three propositions:
48 Ibid., p. 151 ff. Already in the time of Alexander III (1159-1181), matrimony was held to be "true and indissoluble" before carnal intercourse had been performed, "although," says the Pope, "others think otherwise, and it also was at times judged otherwise by certain of Our predecessors" (c. 3, X 4, 4). The school of Bologna especially appears to have stood for the copular theory.
631. Proposition 1. Carnal intercourse itself is not required for the essence of matrimony.
Proof a) From two biblical examples. There was a true matrimony both between Adam and Eve while still living in paradise, and between the Blessed Virgin Mary and St. Joseph. But in neither case did carnal intercourse intervene. Therefore carnal intercourse does not pertain to the essence of a true and perfect matrimony. Most commonly all theologians teach that matrimony was instituted in paradise. Now it is certain that matrimony was not consummated in paradise, because offspring generated in paradise before sin would not have had original sin. But such offspring without original sin never existed. Almost all authors, both ancient and modern, teach that a true matrimony existed between the Blessed Virgin and St. Joseph.49 Freisen himself admits this. For in the Gospel it is said by the angel to Joseph: "Do not fear to take Mary your wife."50 But it is certain by faith that Mary was a virgin both before and after childbirth.51 Therefore carnal intercourse is not required for the essence of matrimony.
Proof b) From the Holy Fathers. St. Ambrose52 says: "It is not the defloration of virginity that makes marriage, but the conjugal compact"; and St. John Chrysostom53 teaches: "Intercourse does not make marriage, but the will." St. Thomas54 responds to the question whether the consent which makes marriage is consent to carnal intercourse: "Those spoke well who said that to consent to marriage is consent to carnal intercourse implicitly, not explicitly." This, Sylvius says,55 is consequently not to be understood as though there were at least a virtual purpose of carnal intercourse, but because it is consent to that power in which such intercourse is contained implicitly, as act in potency. Blessed Albert the Great especially attacks the copular theory vehemently and teaches simply: "It must be said that matrimony is perfected by consent."56
Proof c) From the Roman Catechism, p. II, c. 8, where § 8 is entitled: "Intercourse is not required for a true matrimony."
Proof d) From the Code of Canon Law, which says absolutely in c. 1081: "The consent of the parties, legitimately manifested between persons capable by law, makes matrimony." Nothing, therefore, is said concerning the necessity of marital intercourse.
You will object 1. Christian matrimony signifies the real union of Christ with the Church. But this union is not signified except through the carnal union of the spouses. Therefore carnal union pertains to the essence of matrimony.
I respond by distinguishing the major: Christian matrimony signifies the real union of Christ with the Church through love and the influx of graces, which signify a moral union, I concede; it signifies the physical union of Christ with the Church, I deny; and I deny the consequence.
You will object 2. St. Paul, speaking of spouses, says: "They shall be two in one flesh; this is a great sacrament. But I speak in Christ and in the Church."57 Therefore carnal union pertains to the essence of matrimony.
I respond: These words, "They shall be two in one flesh," do not necessarily signify carnal union, but the indissoluble bond existing between the spouses; for St. Paul here evidently alludes to the words: "And Adam said: This now is bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called woman, because she was taken out of man. Wherefore a man shall leave his father and mother and shall cleave to his wife, and they shall be two in one flesh."58 But from these words nothing can be concluded concerning carnal intercourse. See other objections and their solutions in Billuart.59
49 Cf. S. theol. 3, q. 29, a. 2.
50 Matt. 1:20.
51 Epistle of Pope Siricius on the perpetual virginity of Mary (Denz., n. 91; cf. ibid., nn. 256, 993).
52 It is contained in c. 5, C. 27, q. 2. Similar things are contained in c. 9, C. 27, q. 2, from St. Augustine, De bono coniugali, l. 1, c. 2.
55 Commentary on this place, namely, Suppl., q. 48, a. 1; cf. also Suppl., q. 44, a. 1.
56 In 4, dist. 26, a. 15.
57 Eph. 5:31 ff.
58 Gen. 2:23 ff.
59 De matrimonio, diss. 3, a. 5.
632. Proposition 2. The essence of matrimony in fieri (and consequently also of the sacrament of matrimony) consists in mutual consent externally manifested, or in the matrimonial contract.
That even Christian matrimony is a true and proper bilateral contract, although singular and sui generis, is today, after the Encyclical Arcanum cited above, so certain that the contrary assertion of a few authors is rash.60 The reason is that in matrimony all things are found which are necessary for a true contract. A contract is customarily defined: "The agreement and consent of two or more in the same thing."61 Now in matrimony there is the free consent of two, namely, of those about to marry, in the same thing, namely, in conjugal life. But the qualities of this matrimonial consent will be treated below.
60 Cf. Gasparri, De matrimonio, n. 202 ff.
61 l. 1, § 2, D. De pactis II, 14.
633. The material object of this contract is the persons themselves who contract.
The formal object is the manner of life. Philosophers call the material object the thing about which action is taken; the formal object is that one among the diverse formalities existing in the thing which is principally intended. Thus in one and the same material thing there can be a manifold formal object; for example, one and the same house, considered as the material object, when it is sold, is subject to the formal object of a contract of sale; when it is leased, it is subject to the formal object of a contract of lease. For in the former case ownership is principally intended, but in the latter only the use of the house. In contracting matrimony each spouse must principally62 intend (or at least not exclude) a mutual, exclusive, and perpetual right to the body of the other with an order to generation. Therefore such a right is the formal object of the matrimonial contract; and if such a right were excluded, the matrimony would be null and invalid from the beginning. But once matrimony has been contracted and such a right has been truly granted, nothing prevents that right from never being reduced to practice, or even from being perpetually suspended with regard to actual exercise, for example, when the spouses by common consent emit a vow of perpetual continence, or when, after adultery committed by one spouse, the innocent party refuses to render the conjugal debt (concerning which more fully below).
62 Nothing prevents the spouses from having other accidental intentions, for example, of preserving the honor or fortune of the family, of having a remedy for concupiscence, etc.
634. Matrimony is a plainly singular and sui generis contract, for:
a) every true and legitimate matrimony is a sacred contract.
Hence even the legitimate matrimony of pagans is called by Leo XIII in the Encyclical Arcanum: "sacred by its own force, its own nature, and of its own accord." The reason is both because the immediate author of matrimony is God, and because matrimony even from the beginning was a certain foreshadowing of the Incarnation. The history of peoples also openly demonstrates that nuptials were always held as something sacred, and therefore were celebrated with religious ceremonies, unless the peoples had fallen into the abyss of immorality. Thus Leo XIII in the often-cited Encyclical Arcanum deservedly says: "Both the monuments of antiquity and the customs and institutions of peoples testify, ... in the minds of all of whom it is evident that it had been formed and anticipated that, when they thought of matrimony, there occurred the form of a thing joined with religion and sanctity. For this reason nuptials among them were often accustomed to be performed not without religious ceremonies, the authority of pontiffs, and the ministry of priests."63 From the sanctity of matrimony it follows that the matrimonial contract cannot, like other human contracts, be clothed with arbitrary conditions or dissolved at the will of the contracting parties; for those things which are ordained by God Himself and by the natural law cannot be arbitrarily changed by men.
Note. The sanctity of the matrimonial contract must be greatly inculcated, especially in our days, when, from civil marriage introduced almost everywhere on earth and from frequent divorces, the danger has arisen that the people may consider matrimony as any other human contract. The sorrowful experience of all peoples and all ages proves more than sufficiently that divorces, and even adulteries, increase day by day because matrimony is no longer sufficiently considered as something sacred and immediately instituted by God. Hence every priest should strive with all his strength to inculcate the sanctity of matrimony in the hearts of men.
63 There is no leisure to treat the history of matrimony here. The history of matrimony is the history of morality. The more sacred marriages are held by a people, the better are its morals; and the more frequently matrimony is disfigured by adulteries and divorces, the more its morals are ruined. Leitner treated the history of matrimony (Eherecht; Geschichte der nichtsakramentalen Ehe). Westermarck (History of Human Marriage) wrote in a Darwinistic sense.
635. b) The matrimonial contract is by divine law a bilateral and indivisible contract, which cannot limp.
The Angelic Doctor writes on the matter:64 "Since matrimony is a certain relation, and a relation cannot arise in one of the extremes without its arising in the other, therefore whatever impedes matrimony in one impedes it in the other, because it cannot be that someone is a husband who is not the husband of a wife, or that someone is a wife not having a husband, just as neither can there be a mother not having a son; and therefore it is commonly said that matrimony does not limp." This principle, "Matrimony cannot limp," understood in this negative sense, must be carefully attended to in practice, and it was employed both by the celebrated Decree Ne temere XI, § 2, and by the Code of Canon Law, c. 1036, § 3, in this sense explained above by St. Thomas. For the Code establishes (loc. cit.): "Although an impediment is present on the part of only one party, nevertheless it renders the matrimony either illicit or invalid." Formerly it was much disputed whether this principle could also be taken in a positive sense, so that if one of the contracting parties were capable, that party could communicate this capability to the other party. This question indeed was of great moment in the impediment of clandestinity, in which this principle could truly be applied in a positive sense;65 today, however, after the Decree Ne temere, it has lost practical utility. For the negative response is certain,66 at least for marriages contracted after that Decree. Therefore the following practical conclusion is easily deduced:
An infidel, although not bound by matrimonial impediments of purely ecclesiastical law,67 nevertheless, even after obtaining a dispensation from the impediment of disparity of cult, cannot validly contract matrimony with a Catholic unless he observes the statutes of the Code of Canon Law. The reason is that the Catholic is bound by these statutes, and consequently the infidel also indirectly.
65 Cf. Sacred Roman Rota, in the Mohilev case, April 18, 1916 (Acta Apost. Sed. VIII, 422).
66 Cf. Boeckenhoff, Dissertatio de individuitate matrimonii, Berlin 1901.
67 Cf. below, n. 651.
636. Proposition 3. The essence of matrimony in facto esse consists in a bond permanent of itself, which arises from a legitimate matrimonial contract.68
Billuart writes excellently on this matter:69 "Matrimony in facto esse does not consist essentially in mutual or external consent, nor in the mutual handing over of bodies, because these pass away while the matrimony remains; nor in a mutual right to intercourse, both because that right to intercourse is something consequent upon matrimony already constituted, for the spouses have a right to intercourse because they are joined in matrimony; and because matrimony subsists without that right, as in those who by mutual consent bind themselves to preserve continence, unless perhaps you understand the radical right, which is nothing other than the formal and passive bond or union.... I said: in the formal bond, because the bond is not taken causally for the thing which binds; for thus it is the contract, but for the formal mode and bond, or the passive union resulting from the causal bond, which St. Thomas, q. 44, a. 1, places in the relation of the persons joined."
68 Cf. Roman Catechism, p. 1, c. 8, q. 4.
69 De matrimonio, diss. 1, a. 1.
637. Scholion. There is no reason for us to speak of the necessity and moral goodness of matrimony. For from what has been said it manifestly follows that matrimony is necessary for the human race and is something morally good in itself. For God commanded men in paradise: "Increase and multiply."70 Moreover, the suitable propagation of the human race is impossible without legitimate matrimony. For not only the physical generation of offspring is required, which indeed can be had without matrimony, but also the bodily and spiritual education of the offspring born. This education indeed is morally impossible unless the father and mother are joined in legitimate matrimony and with united strength provide for the welfare of the offspring. Furthermore, true family life and the mutual love of men perish without marriages. Hence the error of certain Socialists and Mormons is most wicked, who wish to abolish all marriages and proclaim so-called free or promiscuous love. But although matrimony is something morally good and necessary for the whole human race, it does not therefore follow that every capable man must contract matrimony. For the propagation of the human race is already had so sufficiently that from the celibacy of a certain few men, not only does no harm arise, but rather the greatest utility. By accident, however, an obligation to enter matrimony can also be incumbent upon some determinate man, for example, to repair damage inflicted, to fulfill a promise made, etc. There is no leisure here to speak of the utility and excellence of virginity.71
70 Gen. 1:28.
71 Cf. S. theol. 2, 2, q. 152, aa. 2 and 4, and above, II, n. 659.
Vol. III, Pt. II, Tr. X, Chapter VII. On Matrimonial Consent
We divide this chapter into two articles: 1. On matrimonial consent and its qualities. 2. On defects of matrimonial consent.
Vol. III, Pt. II, Tr. X, Ch. VII, Article I. On Matrimonial Consent and Its Qualities
"Matrimony is effected by the consent of the parties, legitimately manifested between persons capable according to law; this consent cannot be supplied by any human power."
Thus the Code of Canon Law, can. 1081, § 1. As is evident from what was said above, n. 654, consent is at once the matter, form, and efficient cause of the sacrament of matrimony, although under a diverse respect.
Vol. III, Pt. II, Tr. X, Ch. VII, Art. I, § 1. On the Qualities of Matrimonial Consent
Matrimonial consent must be:
1. true, that is, not fictitious or simulated or jocular.
732. For each contracting party must have the true and sincere intention of handing over to the other a right over his or her own body in relation to generation. For this reason a union between a man and a woman made for other ends, for example, for mutual solace and protection alone, for obtaining only the wealth of the other party, and so forth, is not a true matrimony. - A fiction or simulation of matrimonial consent is present when one contracting party externally indeed seriously and duly pronounces the words or other signs expressing consent, but interiorly has an entirely different intention. The intention of such a simulator can be threefold: 1. of not contracting at all; 2. of contracting indeed, but not binding oneself; 3. of contracting and binding oneself indeed, but not fulfilling the obligations that arise. This third simulation is indeed gravely sinful, because it is a notable unjust deception of the other party, but it does not invalidate the matrimony contracted, because the essence of matrimony consists in sincere consent to contract. But the first and second simulation invalidate matrimony, because true matrimonial consent is then not present.
Since the internal consent of the mind is always presumed to conform to the words or signs employed in celebrating the matrimony,512 in the external forum such fictions are not acknowledged except after clear proof, which indeed is quite difficult. For even the sworn affirmation of one or both spouses does not suffice, but other witnesses or indications so certain that no reasonable doubt concerning the existing fiction remains are required.
You will ask: a) Whether one who consents fictitiously in a Christian matrimony is guilty of sacrilege properly so called. Some affirm it, for example, Pirhing,513 Schmalzgrueber,514 and Marc,515 because he simulates the sacrament of matrimony, which is true sacrilege, from which not even grave fear excuses, as is evident from proposition 29 condemned by Innocent XI: "Urgent grave fear is a just cause for simulating the administration of the sacraments."516 - Other authors more probably deny it, for example, St. Alphonsus,517 D'Annibale,518 Gasparri,519 and so forth. The reason is that the simulation of a sacrament, which is sacrilege, is present only when someone indeed posits the matter and form of the sacrament, but withholds the internal intention of administering a true sacrament, such that the entire rite is vain and null. But one who fictitiously consents in matrimony posits no matter and form of the sacrament of matrimony, because he destroys the matrimonial contract itself, which is the matter and form of this sacrament, and therefore he does not properly simulate the sacrament of matrimony. This reason acquires still greater force from what is soon to be said.
b) Is it ever lawful to give fictitious matrimonial consent? Affirmatively, provided that a grave cause is present. Such is the common opinion.520 Hence, for example, it is lawful to give fictitious consent if someone is compelled by grave unjust fear to enter matrimony, or if someone discovers that he is bound by some diriment but dispensable impediment when all things are already prepared for the nuptials and the matrimony can neither be deferred nor a dispensation obtained here and now. But if in these cases it is lawful to give fictitious consent, it is evident of itself that not every fictitious matrimonial consent is true sacrilege, because it is never lawful to commit sacrilege.
c) To what is one bound who has consented fictitiously with grave fault? First, he cannot seek or render the conjugal debt. This is evident, because such an act would be foul fornication. Then he is bound to repair the unjust harm that he inflicted upon the other party by deceiving that party. Unless great harms are feared from convalidating the matrimony, he is bound to give true consent as soon as possible, so that the matrimony becomes legitimate. The reason is that when two freely contract, with one party proceeding sincerely, the other party is likewise bound to proceed sincerely.521
512 Code of Canon Law, can. 1086, § 1.
513 In 4, tit. 1, n. 97.
514 In 4, tit. 1, n. 230.
515 Instit. mor., n. 1978.
516 Denz., n. 1179.
517 Theol. mor., l. 6, n. 62.
518 Summula Theol. mor. III, § 295.
519 De matrim. II, n. 795.
520 Cf. St. Alphonsus, Theol. mor., l. 6, nn. 62 and 887; Marc, loc. cit. Milante seems to be almost the only one who denies this.
521 Cf. Billuart, De matrim., n. 2.
733. 2. free and deliberate.
That matrimonial consent must be free is evident from the ancient Corpus of Law:522 "Matrimony is contracted by consent alone, and when inquiry is made concerning that consent, the one whose mind is to be investigated ought to enjoy full security, lest through fear that person say that what he hates is pleasing to him, and the outcome which is accustomed to proceed from unwilling nuptials follow." - St. Thomas523 offers two reasons on account of which matrimonial consent ought to enjoy full liberty: a) because matrimony signifies the union of the Church with Christ. But this union is a free union of love. Therefore likewise in every matrimony there ought to be a free union of love. b) The bond of matrimony is perpetual. Hence that which is repugnant to perpetuity takes away matrimony. But fear which befalls a constant man takes away the perpetuity of a contract, because restitutio in integrum can be sought. And therefore this coercion of fear which befalls a constant man takes away matrimony. - The matrimonial yoke, although willingly assumed, is already hard; but it becomes cruel servitude when it is coerced.
Since the matrimonial contract is a most grave matter, previous serious deliberation with perfect knowledge is moreover required. Wherefore if someone is insane or drunk or hypnotized, he does not have sufficient deliberation for giving valid matrimonial consent, and a matrimony perhaps entered in this way is null.
Force, fear, and error are opposed to the necessary liberty and deliberation; these will be treated more fully below.
3. concerning the present.
As was said above, the essence of matrimony consists in consent given concerning the present; therefore consent concerning the future does not suffice.
522 c. 14, X 4, 1.
523 Suppl., q. 47, a. 3.
734. 4. mutual and simultaneous.
Matrimony is a bilateral contract, for which it is altogether required that both contracting parties give mutual consent. Therefore it does not suffice that one alone give consent, but it is required that both contracting parties give and accept consent. Then it is necessary that the handing over and acceptance of the consents be simultaneous. Nevertheless, a moral union suffices. Hence, for example, if Caius says to Sempronia: I take you in matrimony, and Sempronia here and now responds nothing, but deliberates and after an hour says to Caius, who is waiting: I too take you in matrimony, such consent is sufficiently simultaneous. In practice, according to the discipline now in force, a question concerning the simultaneity of consent can rarely arise. But in ancient times, when marriages were not rarely contracted through a proxy, this question was of greater importance.
735. 5. externally and legitimately manifested.
The Council of Florence declared in the Decree for the Armenians: "The efficient cause of matrimony regularly is mutual consent expressed by words concerning the present."524 - This word "regularly" does not pertain to mutual consent, which must be present not only regularly but always, but to "expressed by words concerning the present." For although in extraordinary cases matrimonial consent can be expressed by any intelligible external sign, for example, by writings, nods, or a proxy, nevertheless regularly it must be expressed through clearly pronounced words. Hence the parish priest assisting at the matrimony is to require from those about to marry that they express consent not only by nods or tears but also by clear words, because otherwise many inconveniences can arise, as experience testifies. Innocent III525 said: "Matrimony is truly contracted through the legitimate consent of the man and woman, but as far as the Church is concerned words expressing consent concerning the present are necessary; for the deaf and mute can contract matrimony through mutual consent without words." From this some deduce that words expressing consent are prescribed by the Church under grave obligation. More probably, however, this ecclesiastical precept binds only under light obligation. Thus St. Alphonsus,526 who adds: "But modesty or another reasonable cause would well excuse from such a fault." In our times, indeed, modesty alone does not seem to be a sufficient cause for abstaining from words expressing matrimonial consent. For the Code of Canon Law, can. 1088, simply establishes: "The betrothed are to express matrimonial consent by words; nor is it lawful for them to employ equivalent signs if they can speak."527 - Moreover, the parish priest himself is commanded, in receiving the consent of those about to marry, to employ that formula of words which is prescribed in the statutes of each diocese. For the Council of Trent528 established: "The parish priest, having questioned the man and woman and understood their mutual consent, is either to say: 'I join you together in matrimony, in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit,' or is to employ other words according to the received rite of each province." - Matrimonial consent is legitimately manifested when all those things prescribed by ecclesiastical law, both as regards liceity and as regards validity, are observed. All these things will be treated below, when there is discussion of the celebration of matrimony.
524 Denz., n. 702.
525 c. 25, X 4, 1.
526 Theol. mor., l. 6, n. 888.
527 Can. 1088, § 2.
736. Scholion. On the manifestation of consent through a proxy.529 A few things are to be said concerning this matter, since in present times it is not so practical, because it rarely happens.
For the validity of such a matrimony it is required:
that there be a special mandate for contracting with a determinate person. This mandate must be signed: a) by the mandating party himself; but if he does not know how to write, this is to be noted in the mandate and another witness is to be added who signs the document; b) or by the parish priest or Ordinary of the place in which the mandate is made, or by a priest delegated by either one, or by two witnesses.
that, before the proxy contracts in the name of the mandating party, the mandating party has not revoked the mandate or fallen into insanity.
that the proxy exercise his office personally and not through another subdelegated person.
Moreover, it is prescribed: a) that diocesan statutes perhaps enacted concerning this matter be observed; b) that a just cause be present; c) that the permission of the Ordinary be had if time permits.
Matrimony can also be contracted through an interpreter, but not also through letters, since the Code of Canon Law530 generally establishes: "For contracting matrimony validly, it is necessary that the contracting parties be present either personally or through a proxy." But if matrimony is contracted through letters, the contracting parties are not present.
6. absolute and not conditional.
Authors warn that the matrimonial contract cannot licitly be entered under a condition unless the bishop has expressly permitted this for most grave reasons. In our times such permission is scarcely ever found.531 But it happens not so rarely that those about to marry on their own authority place conditions in contracting matrimony; by this unhappy manner of acting the very validity of the matrimony is placed in danger. Hence certain brief rules drawn from the Code of Canon Law, can. 1092, are indicated here for discerning whether a matrimony entered conditionally is valid or not. But we omit several cases adduced by older authors which today have scarcely any practical utility. For suspensive, resolutory, and interpretative conditions are customarily distinguished.532
529 Cf. Code of Canon Law, can. 1089-1091.
530 Can. 1088, § 1.
531 Cf. Austrian Instruction, § 55.
532 Cf. above, II, n. 261.
Vol. III, Pt. II, Tr. X, Ch. VII, Article II. On Defects of Matrimonial Consent
The defects of matrimonial consent are customarily said to be: 1. error; 2. force and fear.
Merkelbach, Pastoral Questions
Chapter II: Concerning Matrimonial Consent in Particular · Ch. II, Article I: Concerning the Qualities of Matrimonial Consent · Ch. II, Article II: Concerning Those Things Which Can Vitiate Consent · Ch. II, Art. II, § 3. Simulation
Chapter II: Concerning Matrimonial Consent in Particular
As is plain from what has been said, matrimonial consent is a matter of the greatest moment, since it constitutes matrimony itself in its becoming, and exists as at once the matter and form of the sacrament of matrimony. And therefore it is necessary to treat consent more accurately. In the present chapter there must be treated successively, in distinct articles: 1) concerning the qualities of valid consent; 2) concerning the vices of consent.
Ch. II, Article I: Concerning the Qualities of Matrimonial Consent
- I. In order that it be sufficient for valid matrimony, matrimonial consent must be: true and internal, free, mutual and simultaneous, concerning the present, externally manifested.
a) True and internal: namely, it is necessary that the will of the contracting parties sincerely intend to undertake the matrimonial obligations.
b) Free: i.e., immune from error, force, and grave fear, and offered with sufficient knowledge and deliberation.
c) Mutual and simultaneous: since matrimony is a bilateral contract, from its very nature it requires the consent of both persons about to marry. There is also required, as in civil contracts, at least the moral simultaneity of each consent.
d) Concerning the present: for consent concerning the future effects betrothal, not a matrimonial contract.
e) Externally manifested: for who can conceive a merely internal bilateral contract?
Any external and certain manifestation of consent suffices for validity. But the Church commands that words be employed.
"The spouses are to express matrimonial consent by words; nor is it lawful for them to employ equivalent signs, if they can speak." (Can. 1088 § 2.)
- II) Matrimony by an interpreter.
For liceity alone there is required a just cause and, if time allows, the license of the Ordinary. Moreover it is necessary that in no way should it be lawful to doubt the trustworthiness of the interpreter. (Can. 1091.)
- III) Matrimony by a procurator.
For the validity of matrimony of this kind there is required:
a) A special mandate to contract with a certain person (from natural law), signed by the mandator and either by the pastor or the Ordinary of the place in which the mandate is made, or by a priest delegated by either of them, or by at least two witnesses.
If the mandator does not know how to write, or is not able to write, this is to be noted in the mandate itself, and another witness is to be added who also signs the writing. Otherwise the mandate is void. All these things are from ecclesiastical law.
b) That the mandator, before matrimony has been contracted in his name, has not revoked the mandate, or fallen into insanity, even though this was unknown to the procurator or to the other party. (From natural law.)
c) That the procurator himself personally fulfill the office. (Can. 1089.) (From ecclesiastical law.)
For liceity the law prescribes:
a) That diocesan statutes perhaps existing concerning this matter be observed.
b) That a just cause be present.
c) That, if time allows, the license of the Ordinary of the place be had.
- IV) Matrimony by letters.
It is altogether invalid, from ecclesiastical law, since the law decrees: "For matrimony to be contracted validly, it is necessary that the contracting parties be present, either personally or by procurator." (Can. 1088 § 1.)
Ch. II, Article II: Concerning Those Things Which Can Vitiate Consent
- Matrimonial consent is essentially an act of the will; but, as is plain, it supposes a previous act of the intellect. For nothing is willed unless it is first known. Wherefore matrimonial consent can be impeded both by causes which stand in the way of the full knowledge of the mind, and by those which directly influence the will.
On the part of the intellect, defect of reason, ignorance, and error can vitiate consent; on the part of the will, simulation, an appended condition, force or fear. Concerning each of such sources of invalid consent we must now treat.
Ch. II, Art. II, § 3. Simulation
- I. Notion.
Simulation or fiction consists in this, with respect to contracting matrimony: that, while words which express matrimonial consent are externally pronounced seriously and duly, one or both contracting parties withhold interior consent.
The intention of the simulator can be conceived as threefold: 1. not of contracting; 2. indeed of contracting but not of assuming the obligation; 3. of not fulfilling the obligation.
II. What simulation effects with relation to the validity of matrimony.
- a) The intention of not contracting matrimony invalidates.
This is plain, because such simulation excludes every consent of the will. Cf. Can. 1086 § 2.
- b) The intention of not assuming the obligation likewise makes matrimony invalid.
The reason is that without the undertaking of the matrimonial obligation, matrimonial consent itself can no longer be conceived, without which there is no matrimony. Cf. ibid.
- c) The intention of not fulfilling the matrimonial obligations does not invalidate matrimony, but is a grave sin and an unjust deception of the co-party.
For in this simulation nothing is present which is contrary to matrimonial consent itself.
- III. Whether and how one consenting fictitiously sins.
a) Most certainly it is a grave sin, without grave cause, to consent fictitiously in contracting matrimony.
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Merkelbach, Summa Theologiae Moralis
Vol. III, Special Moral Theology: On…, Treatise: On Matrimony, First Part: On Matrimony I…, Question One: On Matrimony…, Article V: On the Essence of Matrimony
S. Th., Suppl., q. 41, a. 1; q. 42, a. 1, ad 5, and a. 4; q. 44, a. 1; q. 45, a. 1 and 2; q. 48, a. 1; III, q. 29.
772. State of the question. - Matrimony can be regarded in becoming, i.e., in the act by which it is entered or the convention by which it is constituted; and in fact, or in the constituted state.
A. Concerning matrimony in becoming, 1. formerly several thought that carnal intercourse was required for its essence, saying that matrimony is begun in espousal or consent, but that it does not yet exist as perfect except by real handing over exercised in intercourse. Whence the name: copula-theory.
Thus Julian the Pelagian, Hincmar of Rheims, Ivo of Chartres, Algerus of Liege, Gratian, and many canonists, especially of the school of Bologna, among whom was Master Roland;1 against St. Peter Damian, and the theologians, especially of the Parisian school with Peter Lombard, who taught that matrimony is constituted by mutual consent alone. But Roland, created Pontiff under the name of Alexander III, as to substance sanctioned the doctrine of the Parisian school; but according to the opinion of Bologna he established that ratified and non-consummated matrimony is not perfectly indissoluble.
1 The opinion afterward is attributed to Wyclif and certain Protestants; Freisen again began to defend it, Geschichte d. Kan. Eherechts, § 3, but afterward retracted it.
- Others have been unwilling for it to be called a contract, or have been found hesitant to affirm this, both among the ancients, at the time when the definitive juridical and scholastic doctrine of matrimony had not yet been formed, and also among more recent authors; indeed, "not a few more recent writers... shrink from the word contract, as if such a name either were unbecoming to matrimony, or inserted a less right concept of matrimony."2
2 Gasparri, De Matrimonio, n. 3.
The immediate end, they say, of the act of entering matrimony is not an obligation, but a consortium of life whose obligations are determined not by the will of those contracting but by the law itself. For from the fact that they called it a contract, not a few falsely deduced that matrimony is dissoluble by the will of those contracting and is ruled by the civil power, after the manner of other contracts. Whence it is not a contract, neither real nor merely consensual, but a state, an institution, a society.
Roman law never uses the word contract; St. Thomas, who had hesitantly called it a contract in the Commentary on the Sentences, in the Summa contra Gentiles no longer says this, but simply says that it is a conjunction. And although ecclesiastical documents speak of a contract, they take that contract in a broader sense; but in the entirely proper sense, and better, it is not called a contract.3
3 Thus many modern jurists in Germany, such as Scherer, Vering, Laemmer, Schulte, Breda; and in France. On this matter there can be consulted: Desforges, Etude historique sur la formation du mariage en droit romain et francais; Lefebvre, Le mariage civil n'est-il qu'un contrat? in Nouv. Rev. historique du droit, 1902; Hauriou, Precis de droit constitutionnel, 1930; G. Renard, La doctrine de l'institution; and in Vie intell., 1931: La doctrine institutionnelle du mariage; Le Fur, Le droit naturel et la theorie de l'institution; Delos, in Bull. Thom., 1930-33.
But Catholic doctrine holds that matrimony a) negatively: does not consist in carnal intercourse, but b) positively: in mutual consent externally manifested. Whence it is not a real contract, but a consensual contract.
B. Matrimony in fact is the effect resulting from the matrimonial contract or from matrimony in becoming: the very state introduced by the contract, the permanent society which is effected by consent, which is the cause of matrimony. Now it is asked in what precisely the essence of this state consists, or in what it essentially consists.
There are many things which pertain to matrimony: mutual consent, external expression of consent, mutual handing over, mutual power over the body of the partner, the nexus and permanent bond between man and woman, the mutual right to acts of themselves apt for generation or to undivided life, the obligation and offices of undivided life, the very association of life, the use of matrimony. Several of these pertain to the cause of matrimony or to the contract, which is matrimony in becoming, and therefore do not constitute it in fact, as the first three; but it is asked which among the remaining things is the very essence of the matrimonial state.
773. Thesis I. Matrimony in becoming is a contract, not real but consensual, essentially consisting in mutual consent, externally manifested and unable to be supplied, unto conjugal life, by which namely man and woman mutually hand over their bodies to each other in order to acts of themselves apt for generation; whence, although it essentially implies order to carnal intercourse, nevertheless this does not pertain to its essence or substantial integrity (can. 1081). - That matrimony, even among the baptized, is essentially a contract, is certain from the encyclical of Leo XIII Arcanum and from the encyclical of Pius XI Casti connubii; but that carnal intercourse does not pertain to its essence is common and certain doctrine, from the decree of Alexander III.
It is proved: A. That carnal intercourse does not pertain to the essence of matrimony is clear from universal tradition, which is established:
- from the Fathers: Origen, hom. 6 on Luke; Basil, On the holy generation of Christ 3-5; Ambrose, De inst. virg. VI, 42; Jerome, against Helvidius, 4; Augustine, De bon. coni. I, 2; De nupt. et conc. I, 11; against Julian 5, 12; Pope Siricius, ep. 1 and 9;
- from the doctrine of Councils and Pontiffs: thus Nicholas I in the response to the Bulgarians, c. 3; the Council of Florence, saying: "the efficient cause of matrimony regularly is mutual consent expressed by words of the present"; the Council of Trent, asserting that clandestine marriages made by free consent were ratified and true marriages, sess. 24, de ref., c. 1, and that ratified non-consummated matrimony is dissolved by solemn profession of religion, can. 6;
- from the common persuasion of the faithful, indeed of men: that a man and a woman come together without sin because they are spouses, and that they are not spouses because they come together.
B. That matrimony is a true contract is established, since it is a mutual consent unto the same juridical agreement, or consent inducing obligation in both parties from commutative justice, namely, consent into the same obligations of the matrimonial state and of undivided conjugal life. As is constantly affirmed, for example, by Innocent III, in the Decretals of Gratian, c. 26, X, IV, 1; the Council of Trent, sess. 24, de ref., c. 1; Pius VI, July 11, 1789; Pius IX, Syllabus, prop. 66 and 73; Leo XIII, enc. Arcanum; Pius XI, enc. Casti connubii; and the Code of Canon Law, can. 1012, § 1 and 2; can. 1015, § 1. That so constant a doctrine is to be understood in a broader sense, not of a properly so-called contract, could seem temerarious.
The material object of the contract is the bodies, or, as St. Thomas says, the very persons of the contracting parties: "legitimate persons for contracting," he says, q. 45, a. 5. The formal object is the association of undivided life to which they obligate themselves by the conjugal bond, which comprises the mutual, exclusive, and perpetual right over the body of the other for acts of themselves apt for generation.
Hence although matrimony cannot be valid unless it confers at least a radical right to carnal intercourse, nevertheless the use of this right or the fulfillment of the matrimonial obligation does not pertain to its essence, just as neither does the use of the thing about which one contracts pertain to the essence of a contract.4
4 Roman law indeed does not use the word contract, but jurists say "to contract matrimony," and commentators said contract. - Among ecclesiastical writers, Ambrose says, De inst. virg., c. VI: "Not the deflowering of a virgin makes marriage, but the conjugal pact." The same doctrine is handed down by the Decree of Gratian, p. 2, c. 27, q. 2, can. 5. Peter Lombard, in IV Sent. d. 27, c. 3, uses the expression: conjugal pact; moreover by comparing betrothals and matrimony, he says that betrothals are a promise concerning the future, matrimony a promise concerning the present, and consequently this is a contract just as that is. Likewise Abelard, Ep. Th. chr., c. 31: confederation concerning marriage to be contracted. Likewise St. Raymond, in Summa, IV, t. 2, § 2; St. Bonaventure, in IV, d. 27, a. 2, q. 1 and d. 29, a. un. q. 3; St. Albert the Great, in IV, d. 27, a. 4, 6, 7 and 8, say contract. And this doctrine occurs throughout St. Thomas: thus for example q. 45, a. 1 and 2: the matrimonial conjunction is made in the manner of obligation in material contracts; and a. 2: in matrimony a contract is made between man and woman; and a. 3, ad 2: also in other contracts; and a. 5: in occult matrimony the due matter is preserved, because there are legitimate persons there for contracting. And q. 47, a. 1: in matrimony there is a certain contract; and a. 3: fear takes away the perpetuity of the contract, and therefore... takes away matrimony; and a. 5: in other contracts obligation is made under a condition..., therefore since matrimony is a contract... And q. 49, a. 3, concerning the goods of matrimony it is said that they are caused from the very conjugal pact. And q. 50, impediments diriment the contract on the part of the contract, or on the part of those contracting: in the first way, since the contract of matrimony is made through voluntary consent, which is taken away by ignorance and by violence. And q. 51, a. 2: just as purchase is a certain contract, so also is matrimony; q. 52, a. 1: in the contract of matrimony one is obligated to the other to render the debt; ignorance of impotence takes away the contract; q. 53, a. 1: one contracting matrimony after a simple vow of continence sins; nevertheless because it is a true contract...; q. 58, a. 1: in matrimony there is a certain contract... whence as in other contracts; similarly a. 3; and a. 5: matrimony, since it is made through the manner of a certain contract, etc. Therefore the Holy Doctor by no means spoke hesitantly, as someone has said. But if in the Summa contra Gentiles he does not speak of contract, the reason is that he does not explain the whole doctrine of matrimony, but has relatively few things, namely, concerning the state of matrimony in fact and concerning unity and indissolubility, but nothing concerning the cause and matrimony in becoming.
774. They object: A. against the first part. Intercourse is of the essence of matrimony.
For 1. Christian matrimony signifies the union of Christ with the Church; but this union is not signified except by carnal conjunction; therefore carnal conjunction pertains to the essence of matrimony. - Resp. I distinguish: Christian matrimony signifies the union of Christ with the Church through grace and charity, or a moral union, I concede; it signifies physical union, I subdistinguish: through the mediation of conjugal intercourse, I concede; essentially, I deny.
- St. Paul explains this union, Eph. V, 31 sq.: "They shall be two in one flesh; this is a great sacrament. But I speak: in Christ and in the Church"; therefore carnal union pertains to the essence of matrimony. - Resp. The words: they shall be two in one flesh, do not necessarily nor first signify carnal union, but the indissoluble bond between spouses with a right to the body of the partner, and the bond of love by which he loves her as his own flesh. For the Apostle alludes to the words of Adam: "This now is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh... wherefore a man shall leave his father and mother and shall cleave to his wife, and they shall be two in one flesh," i.e., in one principle of generation. This is also verified before the spouses exercise intercourse; whence in these words carnal intercourse is not directly treated.
- Matrimony is in the office of generation and as a remedy of concupiscence; but neither is had except through intercourse; therefore intercourse pertains to the essence of matrimony. - Resp. I deny the consequence, because the attainment of the end of some thing is not of its essence.
Therefore carnal intercourse is only of the secondary and accidental integrity of matrimony (q. 42, a. 4).
B. against the other part. Matrimony is not a properly so-called contract, but an institution and society.
For 1. A contract immediately produces obligations and rights; the matrimonial convention immediately produces a state. - Resp.: matrimony is at the same time a state and a contract; essentially and in being it is an institution and society, but causally and in becoming it is a true contract. For matrimony immediately produces the conjugal state, but as obligatory, and all its obligations. It also grants power and right: it grants property of the body, namely, dominion over the body of the partner. Therefore it is a true contract.
- A contract is an act which produces obligation only between the contracting parties, and indeed between equals, and immutably; matrimony produces obligations also in others, is hierarchical, and over the course of centuries has adapted itself to various circumstances. - Resp. Matrimony immediately produces obligation in the contracting parties, mediately and consequently in others; it is between equals as to the essential right and primary object, carnal intercourse, although spouses are not equal as to domestic life; it is immutable in essentials, although it has undergone accidental modifications. Other contracts also can mediately obligate a third party, as lease; institute a hierarchy, as for example a contract of service; nor are they always immutable in all things.
- If matrimony were a contract, it could be dissolved by mutual consent, as contracts can, and be ruled by the civil power after the manner of other contracts. - Resp. I distinguish: if it were a contract of merely human institution concerning temporal things, I concede; if it were a natural contract instituted by God, especially not merely profane, but religious in some sense, I deny.
775. Corollaries. - From the foregoing the following things are drawn:
- Matrimony is a contract, because essentially it is the consent of two persons in the same thing, and indeed perfectly bilateral.
- It is a most excellent contract, both by reason of the object, which is nothing less than the very persons of the contracting parties, and by reason of the end, which is the legitimate procreation of offspring and their education unto the worship of God.
- It is a natural contract, as indicated and imposed by nature itself.
- Yet therefore it is not merely profane, but of its own accord is religious, says Leo XIII, and this independently of sacramental dignity; namely, it is religious and sacred, not indeed intrinsically and essentially, but according to an extrinsic reason, in the present supernatural order: both by reason of its immediately divine origin; and by reason of the signification of a sacred thing, which is an adumbration of the union of the incarnate Word with human nature; and by reason of the end to which it is ordered, namely, to procreate and educate children for God unto the beatific vision; and, Pius XI adds: "from the same natural office of marriage, instituted by the most provident mind of God the Creator, that it should be as it were a certain vehicle for transmitting life, by which parents serve the divine omnipotence as it were as ministers." Wherefore it is "intimately joined with religion and the order of sacred things," and by this reason, Leo XIII says, "there is in it something sacred and religious, not adventitious, but innate, not received from men but implanted by nature." And therefore the monuments of antiquity and the customs and institutions of peoples testify that matrimony is a thing joined with religion and sanctity, and that it was not accustomed to be done without religious ceremonies.
- It is a contract not merely private, as being ordered not primarily to the good of the contracting parties but to the common good; its character does not depend on free convention, but is determined by nature and the author of nature.
- It is a singular contract, both because matrimonial consent can be supplied by no human law (can. 1081, § 1), and because its laws, as instituted by God and nature, cannot be subject to human laws or decrees or to the contrary agreement of the spouses themselves, and because it is of itself perpetual and indissoluble.
- Therefore matrimony "is constituted by divine and human will together: from God are the very institution, ends, laws, goods of matrimony; but with God giving and assisting, from men there is, through the generous handing over of one's own person to the other for the whole time of life, each particular matrimony (between this man, namely, and this woman), joined with the offices and goods established by God." Thus Pius XI.
776. Thesis II. Matrimony in fact essentially consists in the formal nexus or bond of the moral order, of itself permanent, which arises from the contract, or in the relation of conjunction, by which spouses are united and bound to each other and formally are spouses or husband and wife; from which further there is had the mutual right of demanding, just as the mutual obligation of preserving fidelity and fulfilling the duties of marriage.
The doctrine is indicated in Scripture. Gen. II, 24: "man... shall cleave to his wife: and they shall be two in one flesh"; alluding to which Christ says, Mt. XIX, 6: "What therefore God has joined, let not man separate." And the Apostle, I Cor. VII, holds matrimony as a bond or tie, by which a man is bound to his wife (v. 27), and a woman is bound for as much time as her husband lives (v. 39).
Similarly in the documents of Tradition, for example, Alexander III: "Since matrimony is a conjunction of male and female..."; the Council of Florence says: "the bond of matrimony... perpetual," and Trent, sess. 24, says: "the perpetual and indissoluble nexus of matrimony," by which "bond two only are joined and united, Christ the Lord taught more openly... and immediately confirmed the firmness of the same nexus..."
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Palmieri, On Christian Marriage
Ch. I, Thesis I
Setting aside for a little while the character of sacrament, the notion of marriage in itself comes back to this: that it is the union of man and woman, situated in a mutual moral power over the body of the other for carnal copulation and for the individual society of life.
I. Marriage (matrimonium: γάμος, σύζευξις, γαμικὴ ὁμιλία, חֲתֻנָּה) has received its name from the mother; because “the mother pertains more to the account of marriage than the father: for concerning offspring, which is the end of marriage, the mother is more dutiful than the father” (St. Thomas, Suppl., q. XLIV, a. 2, ad 1); or, as the Roman Catechism says (On Matrimony, n. 2), “because to conceive, bear, and educate offspring is the office of the mother.” Augustine, Against Faustus, book XIX, chapter 25, explains the etymology of the name somewhat otherwise, saying: “it is called matrimony from this, that a woman ought not marry for any other reason except that she may become a mother.” It is also called coniugium, because it joins two into one. Likewise it is called connubium from nubendo, because brides among the ancients, when they were handed over to a man, were accustomed nubere, that is, to veil their heads: therefore connubium is the conjunction of the veiled woman with her man. From the same origin they are also called nuptiae, which are also customarily said of the ceremonies and of those solemnities, festive processions, and banquets which are customarily applied to a wife who has been taken; indeed this latter is the primitive and proper signification of nuptiae.
Since we are about to give and explain the definition of marriage, we cannot prove it except from the common sense of men, in the way, namely, in which definitions are customarily proved: that is, by accurately inspecting that thing to which, by all men generally, whether ecclesiastical or profane, the name of marriage is attributed; which thing existing, marriage is said to be; and which thing ceasing, marriage is judged to cease (cf. our Philosophical Institutions, Logic, chapter IV, article 4). Therefore the process of finding the definition will return to this. We receive from the whole human race that which is called marriage by it; we consider in that very thing what either the consensus of those same men, or manifest reason drawn from the common concept, teaches to be essential; and among the essentials we consider what is first and, as it were, the root of the others, namely so that, when this alone is posited, marriage exists, and, when it is taken away, even if the others remain, marriage does not exist. And seizing upon this, we say that this is that thing, that essence, which men have hitherto generally called marriage. Nor will it be necessary to be anxious over the dissent of certain vicious men: for those very men who oppose the rights of marriage, when they attempt to abolish marriage, are witnesses that under that account, although it does not please them, marriage has commonly been understood and is understood.
Marriage is commonly defined in two ways: namely, both insofar as it is a permanent thing and insofar as it is a transitory act giving origin to a permanent thing. Under the former respect it is commonly defined: the marital conjunction of man and woman between lawful persons, retaining an individual custom of life. Thus the Master in IV, dist. 17; St. Thomas there. Sanchez, On Marriage, book II, disputation 1, from the Roman definition, says: Marriage is the conjunction of man and woman, containing an individual custom of life. Thus Institutes, book I, title 9, §1; and with this coheres that definition of Modestinus, law 1, On the Rite of Nuptials, ff.: Nuptials are the conjunction of male and female, a partnership of all life, a communication of divine and human right. Thus also Alexander III, chapter III, Illud quoque, On Presumptions: marriage is the conjunction of male and female, retaining an individual custom of life. Here observe in passing that no explicit mention is made of the procreation of offspring; nevertheless it is made implicitly, for among the acts of individual life is also, indeed chiefly in itself, carnal intercourse. And such is the definition of marriage which generally occurs among the ancients, and which indeed will be more fully declared below. Under the other respect it is defined, with Hugh of St. Victor (On the Sacraments, book II, part II, chapter 4): marriage is the legitimate consent of two suitable persons concerning conjunction; or with Toletus (Summa, book VII, chapter 10): the lawful contract of man and woman, by which mutual power over bodies is handed over, conferring spiritual grace; here the account of sacrament is added, which for the present we wish to set aside for a little while.
II. These things certainly are not to be rejected, but are to be explained. Therefore, in order first to declare and prove the definition of marriage, insofar as it is a permanent thing, by the method which we have stated, it must be observed that there are several elements from which that which is called marriage by all coheres integrally. For in marriage, 1. there is a certain contract containing and manifesting the present interior consent of both, that is, of man and woman, into marital conjunction; 2. there is mutual power over the body of the other, which follows upon the contract, or there is the mutual obligation of one to the other with respect to carnal copulation, which obligation arises immediately from the contract and corresponds to the mutual power; 3. there is the bond by which both are formally conjoined and are formally constituted, in first act, as one complete principle of mutual copulation and, through it, of generation; this bond indeed does not differ in reality from the above-mentioned power; but this bond is that which is called marital conjunction; 4. there is the obligation to receive, if God should give it to those coming together, offspring and to educate it; 5. there is power and obligation to an individual life; 6. there is the right, arising from that bond, of exercising conjugal acts and of carrying on life together; 7. there is an unimpeded power for the generation of offspring through carnal copulation; 8. there is use, that is, copulation, the procreation and education of offspring, domestic society, and mutual help; 9. besides this, Christian marriage is a Sacrament: however, we set this consideration aside for a little while now.
III. Now, of those eight, the last, that is, use, does not belong to the essence of marriage, although it pertains to its integrity; because act supposes the essence of the acting thing already constituted, and all concede this. Likewise an unimpeded power for the generation of offspring through carnal copulation is not essential to marriage, if, as all confess, marriage can exist also between sterile persons and the aged, who are fit indeed for coming together, but unfit for generating; indeed also between a man and a woman who lacks ovaries (response of the Holy Office, February 3, 1887), and indeed who lacks ovaries and uterus (response of the same Holy Office, 1890). Again, the proximate right of using does not belong to the essence; for that right can be lost, while marriage remains, by the consent of all civil and sacred laws; it is, namely, something consequent upon the essence. Moreover, the contract and interior consent, which is manifested through it, are indeed essential in order that marriage exist, and can be called marriage itself in fieri; but they are not the very essence of marriage; for marriage is something persevering, since marriage is said simply and properly to exist as long as husband and wife continue to live. But consent expressed by words concerning the present is called by Eugene IV (Instruction for the Armenians) the efficient cause of marriage, not marriage itself. Indeed consent is not only a transitory act, but it can even habitually cease, as if formal dissent and aversion should succeed in both toward the other; nevertheless marriage, no otherwise than before, remains and endures. Therefore, in these four of the things enumerated, which are the first, sixth, seventh, and eighth, the essence of marriage does not consist. Let us see the remaining things.
Moreover, the obligation to receive offspring, if God has given it, and not to impede its generation, and to educate it, is necessarily connected with the mutual power for carnal copulation, so that this cannot be admitted without that. For this is the end which nature has appointed for marital copulation, that through it the human race be propagated. Although it is not necessary that copulation be had, nor does offspring always follow copulation, and it is lawful to have copulation without hope of offspring, because there are other honorable ends of the use of marriage besides offspring; nevertheless, because offspring is the end which nature intends in marital copulation, and because this copulation, unless it is impeded accidentally by some physical defect, is naturally ordered to it, it is unlawful for spouses to do anything directly in the use of marriage against the reception of offspring. That is: by the very fact that they have the right of mingling with each other, they also have the obligation of using copulation rightly for the generation of offspring and, if God gives offspring to those using marriage, of receiving it. The same end appointed by nature further demands that the offspring received be rightly educated; but concerning the ends of marriage, see the following thesis. Therefore this obligation is essential to marriage; but because it supposes marriage, and indeed its use, it cannot constitute its essence.
The obligation and power, or right, to an individual life is conceived in two ways: either as obligation and power to carnal intercourse, so that on that account the man is of the woman and the woman is of the man, and in this way that obligation and power is the bond itself, of which we shall speak presently; or as obligation and right to cohabit and to carry on common life together, and then that obligation and that right do not constitute marriage, but suppose it; for it is an obligation and right belonging to spouses. There remains the bond and the mutual power over the body of the other. Now, first, we affirm that this bond is really contained in that mutual power over the body of the other in order to carnal copulation, and in the mutual obligation of one to the other, to an individual life. For some mutual power to carnal copulation is necessary, by the consent of all, to the essence of marriage; once that is removed, there will be any other society rather than conjugal society. But since a manifold bond can arise from mutual power, we say that the conjugal bond is constituted by this very mutual power in order to carnal copulation, and by the mutual obligation of one to the other, which obligation is also necessarily undertaken together with that same power.
For the bond is that which arises necessarily and immediately from the contract; for both consent into conjunction, the man indeed into the conjunction of himself to the woman, and the woman into the conjunction of herself to the man (St. Thomas, q. XLV, a. 1, ad 3); but from the contract there arises immediately and necessarily a mutual obligation, and therefore a mutual power to that which is handed over by the contract (ibid., a. 5, ad 2): therefore. And indeed, with that mutual power and obligation existing, the man is of the woman and the woman of the man; and therefore both are united. And from this union there is constituted one complete principle, not indeed in second act, which is situated in the mingling of bodies, but in first act or power, of carnal copulation and, through it, according to the primary ordination of nature, a principle of generation, which is found incompletely in each separately. Therefore there are two who are united, but there is one thing to which they are united, that is, the principle of generation. Hence the relation of conjunction is manifold and one: manifold on the part of the subject, because there are two subjects, man and woman; one on the part of the cause, namely the final cause, because it is ordered to the same carnal copulation and generation in number. And insofar as this union is manifold on the part of the subject, it is signified by these names, wife and husband; but insofar as it is one on the part of the cause, it is signified by this name, marriage (ibid., a. 1, ad 3).
IV. Moreover, secondly, we say that the essence of marriage is placed in such a bond. For not only is the bond itself permanent, but, when it alone exists, marriage is truly said to exist; and each, namely bond and marriage, mutually posits itself and mutually destroys itself. Thus marriage is received by both Roman and canon law, civil and ecclesiastical society therefore consenting, and the definition brought forward above from law looks to this. Although all these things, says the Roman Catechism (loc. cit., n. 3), are present in perfect marriage, namely interior consent, the external agreement expressed in words, the obligation and bond which is effected from that agreement, and the copulation of the spouses by which marriage is consummated, nevertheless none of these properly has the force and account of marriage except that obligation and nexus which is signified by the word conjunction. Thus St. Thomas, q. XLIV, a. 1, in corp. and ad 1, where he says: “marriage is the bond by which spouses are formally bound, not effectively; and therefore it need not be something other than conjunction”; and in the following question, article 1, ad 2: “Marriage,” he says, “is not consent itself, but a certain union of those ordered to one thing, which consent makes”; and q. XLII, a. 3, ad 2: “External acts and words expressing consent directly make a certain nexus, which is the Sacrament of marriage.”
Hence, in the definitions brought forward above, marriage is defined as conjunction: not any conjunction whatever, but of male and female, that is, of each principle, separately indeed inadequate, of generation; and this conjunction therefore supposes the possibility of having copulation and arises from this very mutual power.
These things having been declared, it is easy to gather the definition of Marriage insofar as it is a permanent thing. It is, namely, the union of man and woman, situated in the moral obligation and power of the one over the other for carnal copulation and a certain individual society of life.
We say “a certain individual society,” according to those things which above we distinguished in the obligation to an individual life. For domestic society, although it is required by marriage, nevertheless does not constitute its essence. We do not indeed deny that these things are indicated in the definitions of Roman law; nevertheless we observe that they pertain to the true definition if only the exigency of them is considered, which necessarily coheres with the bond; but if domestic society is considered in act, it is therefore placed in the definition because it is that to which the conjunction of male and female is ordered, especially if individual life is taken fully, so that it also comprehends carnal intercourse.
V. We have said that mutual consent expressed outwardly, or the contract, is the efficient cause of marriage. But when we say this, we do not wish to affirm that that consent is the adequate cause of the perennial bond of the spouses, a question which we shall settle in another place; nor that marriage is simply some contract, for in many ways it differs from a contract, as again we shall see later. But because, besides the action of God uniting the spouses, there is certainly required some reason on the part of the man and woman determining the union of both, and this reason is the consent of each into the union, which is posited after the manner of a contract; in this sense we say that the contract is the efficient or determining cause of marriage. For marriage is a certain mutual obligation between man and woman, which does not exist naturally, nor is it immediately effected by God or by another authority, but is freely undertaken by man; but the efficient cause of an obligation freely undertaken is those very persons who undertake it, insofar as by their consent they will and admit it. Therefore the consent of those contracting marriage is that by which that obligation, or marriage, is determined. But if you seek the principle which, it is the contracting persons themselves. But because marriage is a certain union, and this union is made by mutual consent, and this mutual consent already is a certain actual union by which the permanent union begins, hence the consent itself is called marriage, but marriage in fieri. Therefore, if you consider marriage in fieri and in facto esse, consent is intrinsic to it, for it is marriage itself in fieri; but if you consider marriage only in facto esse, namely the permanent nexus of man and woman, consent is extrinsic to it; for it belongs to the account of an efficient cause to be extrinsic to its effect, that is, distinct from it.
Therefore, when with Eugene IV we say that the efficient cause of marriage is the consent of those contracting, we do not oppose the words of Christ teaching that God is the one who joins man and woman (Matt. XIX); for God joins insofar as he both established the law according to whose norm man and woman ought to be joined for the generation of offspring, and established the indissolubility of the nexus which has once been freely undertaken, and therefore wills, and by his own will effects, that that nexus exist and be perpetual. Besides, God is said to join spouses insofar as by his grace he sanctifies them and unites them in Christ. Therefore the consent of each is a certain proximate cause why the obligation of each toward the other exists; but that it be such an obligation depends both on the law of nature and on the positive law of God, as will be declared later.
VI. Now that nexus, or conjunction, or bond, which consent makes, is called and is the bond of souls: “There are two things in marriage,” says Innocent III, chapter Debitum, On Bigamists, “the consent of souls and the mingling of bodies.” Since the latter looks to act, the former displays the essence, which is placed in the bond; whence consent there is the same as the bond. Therefore the bond is a bond of souls. “One society of body and soul is contracted, so that affections may be mingled with affections and flesh in a certain way be joined to flesh,” says St. Asterius, bishop of Amasea, homily on Matt. XIX, 3. And indeed before the consummation of marriage there is no actual mingling of bodies, yet marriage exists; “for consent, not lying together, makes nuptials,” c. 30, ff., de R. I. Therefore man and woman are united before and apart from mingling, because of the power mutually handed over and the obligation mutually accepted; but the subject of power and obligation is the soul, or man through the soul: therefore according to the soul two are bound, and therefore there is a bond of souls. For this reason it is not called consent of souls because the term into which consent is borne is something spiritual only; for it is borne into the mutual power over bodies handed over, which in itself is ordered to mutual mingling; but because that power itself is in itself something spiritual and inheres subjectively in the soul. Wherefore the essence of marriage consists in a moral bond. Marriage is therefore a bond of souls, because it is effected by consent, because it is contained by obligation, which binds souls. This bond, however, remains even if, by the fault of one or both, mutual affection ceases. Yet in this matter a certain sensible affection must be distinguished from marital affection, which is that serious will by which the one wills to have the other as his or her own, and conversely, and to be obligated to that other, and to render fidelity.
VII. The definition of Hugh and Toletus brought forward above (n. 1) directly signifies the cause of marriage, and indirectly its essence; and this definition is employed especially when Marriage the Sacrament is to be defined. For although Christian marriage always remains a sacrament, as will be explained below, nevertheless the sacramental rite, by which the sacrament is made and grace is conferred, is had when marriage is made, or when its cause is posited; this will be declared in what follows.
VIII. From what has been said, you have, first, that the consummation of marriage does not belong to its essence.
Second, you have that the consent which makes marriage is not explicit consent into carnal copulation, but explicit consent into the power of the same, or into the bond, and implicit consent into copulation. Yet this implicit consent, which in itself follows upon consent into the power, can, by mutual consent to preserve chastity, while that power nevertheless remains, be suspended or impeded, as we shall demonstrate in Thesis III.
Third, you have that marriage differs altogether both from the conjunction of the other animals, for no moral bond exists between them, and from fornicatory and wandering concubinages, in which there is no obligation of the man to a determinate woman, which obligation makes marriage (q. XLI, a. 1).
Fourth, you have that in the definition itself the properties of marriage are signified: namely unity, when it is said “of man and woman,” and the perpetuity of the bond, when power and obligation are said to be to a certain individual life. To explain and defend these properties, however, is the more important part of this treatment, and this we shall carry out below.
IX. Note: Marriage is divided into legitimate, ratified, and consummated. Legitimate is that which is contracted by legitimate and therefore valid consent; of this sort there is marriage even among unbelievers. Ratified is that which, being legitimate, is sanctified by the sacrament of baptism; of this sort is the marriage of the faithful. And when this appellation is made simply, it is accustomed to have an exclusive signification, that is, not consummated. Consummated marriage exists both among the faithful and among unbelievers, and is marriage perfected by carnal copulation.
Ch. I, Thesis III
A pact added to the matrimonial contract for preserving perpetual continence does not conflict with the essence of that contract; and it can be that in this way the most blessed Mother of God and St. Joseph entered marriage.
I. In chapter Si Conditiones, On Conditions Added, it is said: "If conditions are inserted against the substance of marriage, for example, if one says to the other, I contract with you if you avoid the generation of offspring, or until I find another richer in honor or possessions, or if for gain you hand yourself over to be adulterated, the matrimonial contract, however favorable it may be, lacks effect; although other conditions added in marriage, if they are base or impossible, ought, because of its favor, to be held as not added." As regards the last part of this chapter, cf. Sanchez, book V, disp. 3; for it does not pertain to our question. What is established in the first part seems to oppose those things which we taught in the preceding thesis and here again defend more fully. For those who would enter a matrimonial contract with an express pact of preserving virginity, or of abstaining from carnal mingling, would finally add this condition to the contract: I contract with you if you avoid the generation of offspring, which effects no contract. And indeed, since offspring is the end of marriage, so that marriage is to be contracted for its sake alone, if we believe Augustine (cf. preceding Thesis, n. II), and yet that offspring is obtained by means of copulation, does not the condition of abstaining from copulation oppose the end of the contract? But is not an expressed will of not attaining the end, by this very fact, also the will of not employing the means which has been instituted for that end alone? Indeed, the matrimonial contract and the pact of preserving virginity appear mutually contradictory and therefore to destroy each other. For by the former there is made a mutual obligation and power toward carnal copulation; by the latter there is made an obligation of abstaining from it and a lack of power for it, moral indeed, just as the power in marriage also is moral. For this reason this contract seems ridiculous: I give you power for this, provided that you obligate yourself not to use it, that is, provided that you do not obtain this power. Therefore, although the pact of preserving virginity concerns a holy thing, indeed a holier thing, nevertheless, because it cannot be composed with matrimonial consent, it must be said that marriage is made void by that pact. Thus indeed not a few say. Benedict XIV, On the Diocesan Synod, XIII, 22 (cf. also On the Feasts of the Blessed Mary, on the Espousals), doubtful, as is his custom, hesitates because of the opposed opinions of Doctors; but in order to defend a true marriage, such as he judges really to have existed between the Blessed Virgin and St. Joseph, he enters upon that path which excludes an express pact of preserving virginity added to the contract itself. Although this way of explaining that marriage is not disapproved by us, nevertheless we judge that that marriage could have been true even if a pact of preserving virginity had preceded it, that is, generally that this pact mutually undertaken does not vitiate the matrimonial contract.
II. That there was true marriage, not mere betrothal, between the Blessed Virgin and St. Joseph, Suarez, in III, q. XXIX, a. 2, section 1, holds as so certain that he asserts it to be a truth of faith, which Sanchez, book II, disp. XXVIII, does not approve. If by a truth of faith you understand one which not only has been revealed by God but also has been defined by the Church, Sanchez rightly disapproves the opinion of Suarez; but if you call a truth of faith one which has been revealed and can be defined by the Church, we judge that Suarez spoke truly, because of the theological arguments which persuade us of this. On this matter one should read the learned Dissertation of the distinguished Father Patrizi, On the First Embassy of the Angel to St. Joseph, published separately. We shall complete the matter briefly in this way.
- In describing the genealogy of Christ, this is Matthew's purpose (1:1 ff.), namely to show that Christ draws his origin from Abraham and David. But since Christ, by the testimony of Matthew himself (ibid. 18 ff.), arose from the Virgin alone without the help of a man, it was necessary that Christ draw origin from David through the Blessed Virgin herself; and therefore it was necessary that the Blessed Virgin herself be from David, and the Evangelist had to demonstrate this if he wished to show Christ's origin from David. Now Matthew deduces the series of generations from David down to Joseph, and then adds that he is the man of Mary, from whom Jesus was born. But this way of describing the genealogy would conclude nothing unless Matthew supposed that this was known to those to whom he was writing, namely that Mary was an agnate of Joseph, that is, from the same family. This, I say, Matthew supposes as known; for this is in reality the minor premise of his reasoning, which nevertheless he left unspoken. Namely he argues thus, nor can his conclusion have force otherwise: those whom I have enumerated are the progenitors of Joseph; but Mary is an agnate of Joseph; therefore the same men, either all or almost all, perhaps with the last excepted, are also the progenitors of Mary, and therefore of Christ. Why, then, did Matthew leave unspoken this premise necessary for his conclusion? There was no other reason except that he supposed it to be known to those to whom he was writing. Moreover, this shows that it was also known to the same persons that Mary was the true wife of Joseph. For how could it be generally established that Mary was an agnate of Joseph? Some public fact was required. Such a fact could be no other than this: that Mary, a daughter lacking brothers, had been compelled to marry by force of the law concerning heiress daughters (Num. XXXVI, 1 ff.), which law indeed ordered heiress daughters to marry an agnate. Cf. Patrizi, On the Gospels, dissertation VI and dissertation IX, chapter 2, part 1. Therefore this was commonly established: that Mary had satisfied this law. But the law ordered the heiress daughter to enter, not some mere betrothal, but true marriage with an agnate. Therefore, finally, Matthew himself, calling Joseph the man of Mary, takes "man" strictly, namely as one who was joined by the bond of true marriage to Mary his wife, who by force of that law had married him.
- Mary is said to be betrothed to Joseph (Matt. 1:18; Luke 1:27). Now either the betrothal of the Virgin of which the Evangelists speak is taken so that the nuptials had been completed, or so that the celebration of the nuptials still remained (cf. the Parergon at the end of this chapter). If the first is said, you have a perfect marriage. If the second is said: first, either betrothal alone effected true marriage among the Hebrews; but the taking or leading of the bride into the house of the man, that is, the celebration of nuptials, provided this, at least in the later age, that the spouses might lawfully and honorably use the power already handed over and accepted (cf. the cited Dissertation of Patrizi). Therefore, if marriage consists in the handing over of power, the Blessed Virgin was already the true wife of Joseph. But second, it cannot be doubted that if something still remained to be done, that is, the celebration of the nuptials, it was done in its own time. For otherwise Joseph would have had to dismiss the bride according to Mosaic law by giving a bill of repudiation, which Joseph certainly did not do. Therefore.
- Besides, how could it have happened that Jesus was commonly believed to be the son of Joseph the carpenter (Luke III, 23; John VI, 42, compared with Mark VI, 3), unless it had been established for all that there was true marriage between him and the Mother of the Lord? Therefore whatever was required for entering true marriage had been performed by both, and indeed publicly; and therefore true marriage was contracted.
- But what of the Fathers? The Fathers generally investigate and give reasons why the Blessed Virgin was joined to a man: namely that she might have support and consolation, that she might not be reckoned an adulteress, and that her birth-giving might be concealed from the devil (cf. Jerome on Matthew, chapter 1). Now these reasons, especially the two latter, require such a union of the Blessed Virgin with St. Joseph to be conceived that by force of that union Joseph should be judged to have had a right over the Blessed Virgin to conjugal acts; but this is the bond proper to marriage. But when they deny that Joseph was or is to be called the husband of the Virgin (cf. Jerome, ibid., chapter II), they understand by husband one who is not only a man, but who further uses conjugal copulation. This is a way of thinking frequent in Jerome, who therefore opposes husbands, as also wives, to virgins in this manner: that he numbers among virgins also those who, joined by the bond of marriage, abstain from intercourse (cf. what he disputes against Helvidius, and what we shall bring from him in Chapter II, Thesis VII). And rightly indeed; for it is not the conjugal bond, but the use of copulation, that is opposed to virginity and most perfect chastity. Therefore it must be held that the Blessed Virgin was joined to St. Joseph by the bond of true marriage.
III. But this also must be held: that the Blessed Virgin, before she was addressed by the Angel, had obligated herself to God by a vow of virginity. For her words to the Angel compel us to believe this: "How shall this be, since I know not man?" For this present, "I know not," in this place signifies not some transitory act, but the will or power of the act, as the present form of a verb frequently does; otherwise the response would be foolish and ridiculous. Therefore the sense is: since I do not wish, or I cannot, know a man, that is, be mingled with him. Shall we think, with the Protestant interpreter Wilhelm Meyer in this place, that Mary from error so understood the preceding words of the Angel that she thought that she immediately then had to mingle, not with her own man, who perhaps was absent, but with another, and therefore signified her will of preserving conjugal chastity? This interpretation, full of irreverence, besides the fact that it is unknown to the Fathers and abhorrent from them, is excluded by the words of the Virgin Mary themselves; for she did not answer that she did not know another man, but simply that she did not know man. If these words are considered in themselves, their sense can only be one of these two: either that she knows no man, or that she does not know her own man. But because it is absurd to suppose that the Blessed Virgin suspected the Angel of proposing to her an illicit mingling forbidden by natural law, those words in this place can give only the other sense; and therefore they come back to this: since I do not know my man. Besides, what was there in the words of the Angel, who used only future forms, "you shall conceive," "you shall bear," from which Mary could suspect that he was speaking of a conception to be had immediately? But what that learned doctor says, that our interpretation is excluded by the very condition of Mary, since she was joined in marriage to Joseph, is altogether inept; as though it were not lawful for spouses, at least after nuptials had been entered, to vow virginity by consent. We do not divine that this happened; we are taught it from the words of Mary. Cf. Petavius, On the Incarnation, book XIV, chapter 4.
IV. But the question can be raised whether the Blessed Mary made the vow of virginity only after the nuptials had been entered, or before them; and if this latter, whether absolutely or only conditionally, namely unless God should perhaps signify to her that something else was pleasing to him.
For resolving the former question, certain testimonies of Scripture do not suffice. Nevertheless the sense of the Church, concordant among ancient and recent writers, shows itself clearly enough in favor of the sentence affirming that the vow, or purpose, of virginity was elicited before the nuptials. This is attested by the most ancient author of the apocryphal book The Gospel of the Nativity. Epiphanius seems to have judged the same in heresy LVIII, n. 7, saying that "the Blessed Mary was indeed handed over to Joseph," whom he nevertheless thinks to have been old, "but by no means was she granted to him for copulation." Thus Augustine judged, who in the book On Virginity, chapter 4, says: "She was betrothed to a just man, not one who would violently take away, but rather one who would guard against the violent, what she had already vowed." Thus Sophronius of Jerusalem, in his Oration on the Annunciation of the Mother of God (Ballerini, Sylloge, part 2, p. 95), after he had commended, insofar as it could be done, the purity and virginity of the Blessed Mary offered in the temple and thereafter, introduces the Angel speaking thus to the Blessed Virgin: "I know that Joseph has obtained the mere name of spouse without the thing; for he was not joined to you as the begetter of offspring, but as the faithful and God-beloved minister of your Son." John Geometra, not later than the middle of the eleventh century (Sylloge of Ballerini; cf. his preface, part 2), said in an Oration on the Annunciation of the Mother of God (ibid., p. 106): "the tradition derived from the Fathers to us: that the Virgin knew not only no use of nuptials, but not even a desire of them. I know no desire of a man, she says, no will of the flesh is mine. This indeed was singular to her, even from the whole female sex, since before all others and from a deliberate purpose of the will there was in her a chastity inaccessible to these defilements." Hence in the twelfth century Hugh of St. Victor wondered that anyone had existed who dared to call into doubt the vow of virginity made by the Blessed Virgin before the nuptials, moved by this reason, that it cannot be composed with the consent necessary for marriage. This indeed he excellently and subtly refutes in the little work On the Perpetual Virginity of the Blessed Mary. Finally after him Thomas taught, in IV, dist. XXX, that the vow of virginity preceded the nuptials, and generally the Scholastics with him.
V. But the remaining question is whether this vow before the nuptials was absolute or only conditioned. A conditioned vow is understood in this way: that the Blessed Virgin firmly proposed and promised to God her perpetual virginity, with the will of preserving it insofar as it was situated in her own choice, but with some condition nevertheless added to this promise; not only this implicit condition, "if it please God," which accompanies all vows, says St. Bonaventure (in IV, dist. XXVIII, a. 1, q. 6), but an explicit and more determinate condition, arising from a doubt by which the Virgin could still be troubled: namely, unless from some debt of keeping the divine law by which I am bound, I should understand that there is another will of God. For one must think that the Blessed Virgin, who was an heiress daughter, knew the Mosaic law which ordered daughters of this kind to marry agnates, so that goods might remain in the family; and therefore that one of her agnates had a right to take her as wife. Moreover, unless the man consents to continence, it is the obligation of the wife to render the debt. Could the Virgin, placed in these circumstances, make an absolute vow of virginity? A twofold hypothesis must be distinguished.
If we suppose that the Blessed Virgin had already long before been made certain by divine revelation that, whatever would happen, although she would have to marry, nevertheless her virginity would be subject to no danger, she could before marriage promise virginity to God absolutely. But if we do not suppose this knowledge of the Virgin from divine revelation, she could conceive only a conditioned vow; otherwise she would have shown herself less conformable to the law, which certainly had to be avoided all the more. Therefore, if no revelation preceded, it must be said either that marriage was entered by the Blessed Virgin with that vow only conditioned, "if Joseph should consent"; but, with the consent of Joseph acceding after the matrimonial contract, the vow became absolute before she was saluted by the Angel; or that before the matrimonial contract itself, there intervened a mutual pact with Joseph of preserving virginity in marriage, and that, with the future husband's consent, the Virgin then already vowed absolutely, if indeed this pact does not obstruct matrimonial consent. But if that revelation which we have mentioned preceded, the Blessed Virgin, even before she thought of marriage, before the consent of a future husband was received, could absolutely vow virginity to God, since she knew with certainty that it would not be violated against her will by any external cause. But what is more probable to have happened? If you weigh the sense of the Church expressed by the testimonies cited, you will hardly persuade yourself that there is speech only of a conditioned vow before the nuptials. For they speak either simply of a vow, or even of an absolute vow. This is what Hugh of St. Victor defends, what Thomas affirms, who therefore, to explain it, posits a revelation previously made to the Virgin, by which she was made certain that her virginity would never come into danger. This sentence, that an absolute vow of virginity preceded marriage, coheres more with the eminent concept of the most pure Virgin. Thus the question remains whether it was lawful for each to add to matrimonial consent a pact concerning preserving virginity, and whether it is lawful for us to conceive the nuptials entered by the Blessed Virgin with St. Joseph in this way. This certainly is easier to think to have been done if no revelation preceded for the Virgin; but even on this hypothesis it could also happen, unless the essence of the matrimonial contract rejects a pact of this kind. It is clear that the general question can be proposed, namely whether a pact of this kind renders the matrimonial contract null.
VI. Although not a few Doctors, whom Benedict XIV seems rather to approve in On the Feast of the Espousals of Blessed Mary, judge this to be so and seem to rely on the authority of St. Thomas, nevertheless the denying sentence is certain to us, and Hugh of St. Victor in the cited little work, and others whom Ballerini follows (Theological-Moral Work, vol. V, On Marriage, n. 419 ff.), defend it. For, first, the arguments brought forward for the opposite sentence do not settle the matter.
Indeed, a) appeal is badly made to the canon of the Decretals (n. I). For that condition which is said to be against the substance of marriage, "If you avoid the generation of offspring," is without any reason confused with this one: "If you are willing to preserve continence," although from this there follows a lack of offspring. For the condition which is against the substance of marriage is that which is opposed, not only negatively but positively, to some good of marriage; certainly of this kind are the two following conditions enumerated by the Pontiff. But the condition of avoiding offspring, which positively opposes marriage, is the will of impeding the generation of offspring in the use of marriage. The sense of the condition, namely, is this: I contract with you if, in carnal mingling, you are willing to impede offspring from existing. Indeed, the examples of this condition brought by the canonists look to this, namely either by suffocating the offspring or by drinking a potion of sterility, as is taught in chapter Aliquando, 32, q. 5, says Gonzalez on the Decretals, book IV, here, which examples suppose carnal copulation and indicate the will of impeding offspring from arising from marital copulation. This certainly is directly against the end of the same. Now this is altogether different from establishing abstinence from copulation; therefore that decretal is not rightly invoked in this question. Indeed, the condition added of impeding offspring is against the substance of marriage, because that very impediment of offspring in carnal mingling is against the end of conjugal copulation; but who would say that mere abstinence from copulation is against the end of marriage? Therefore these two things are wrongly confused.
But, they say, b) in reality it is opposed to the end of marriage, whose end is offspring. Therefore we respond according to those things which we taught from Augustine in the preceding thesis: offspring is the primary end of matrimonial copulation, although not the only end - conceded; it is the end of the matrimonial bond itself - distinguish: immediate, denied; mediate, distinguish further: it is the only end, or an end essential to the essence of marriage, denied; it is some end, indeed even primary, conceded. Now, to enter some contract with a pact not indeed of acting against some one of its ends, but only of not doing that from which some one of its ends, even the primary end, follows, while other ends and goods remain, is certainly lawful. For provided that this end is not positively excluded, an action intending a good from a good end is honorable (cf. the moral theologians); but the end is not positively excluded when only the use of the thing is omitted. Indeed I ask: is there a true matrimonial contract when it is made between those for whom copulation is possible, but offspring is not possible? Who sane has ever denied this? In those contracting, can there be a serious intention of offspring? I do not think so. Therefore the matrimonial contract is valid even without any positive intention of any good or end of the same, without, I say, any intention of offspring.
Therefore, from the fact that, because of the pact of continence added to the contract, the intention of offspring is lacking, that pact cannot be condemned on account of the lack of intention of this end.
But they press more sharply, c). With that pact added, not only is the intention of the end lacking, but also the intention of copulation; indeed there is introduced an obligation of abstaining from it. But this is repugnant to matrimonial consent itself, by which power is conferred for copulation; for a moral power toward copulation and a moral obligation of abstaining from it are contraries which cannot exist together. This is the principal argument of the adversaries (Sanchez, book V, disp. 10). Nevertheless we have something to reply; namely, we affirm three things. First, an intention of not using copulation, hidden in the soul, does not harm the value of the contract; once that contract has followed, if the other asks, it will be necessary to render the debt and to bid farewell to that intention. Second, this intention when manifested, since, if it is seriously made, it signifies the will of obligating the other to continence, vitiates the contract if the other does not consent to the same thing. Third, the mutual obligation of continence undertaken in the contract itself is opposed not to the matrimonial contract itself, but to a certain free use of the same, and therefore does not make the contract void.
The first is clear, because in itself the will of not using some thing does not exclude the will of having it. Indeed, if someone received the order of priesthood without the intention of ever exercising its acts, would this will exclude the intention of receiving the order? By no means; but he would truly be a priest, who nevertheless could be obligated by the Bishop to acts of the order, notwithstanding that intention. So in marriage. For, with St. Thomas (in IV, dist. XXX, q. 2, a. 2, ql. 3), as Sanchez observes (book II, disp. XXVIII, n. 4), a twofold account of implicit consent must be distinguished. One is implicit consent on the part of the object or contract; in this way it is true that in consent into marriage there is contained implicit consent into copulation, to which marriage is intrinsically ordered. The other is implicit consent on the part of the subject or the one contracting; in this way implicit consent into copulation is not necessary, and indeed, although the one contracting has the intention of not consenting into copulation, there is true marriage. This, says Sanchez, St. Thomas seems clearly to signify in the cited place by these words: "The Virgin implicitly consented into copulation... copulation was never in the proposal; for she had been certified by God that the act ought never to follow." Behold how, on the part of the contract, he posits implicit consent into copulation, but not on the part of the one contracting; rather, he posits the opposite disposition. Thus Sanchez.
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Sabetti-Barrett, Compendium of Moral Theology
Vol. II, Tr. XVIII, Ch. III, Article I. On the Nature of Marriage
Question 2. Does consent through a procurator suffice?
Resp. Affirmatively, provided the required conditions are present, because marriage has the whole nature of a contract; but any contract can be made through a procurator. Hence Canon 1088, § 1: For contracting marriage validly it is necessary that the contracting parties be present either by themselves or through a procurator; and the Roman Ritual, tit. VII, c. 2, n. 2: "Nor does the consent of one suffice, but it must be of both, and expressed by some visible sign, whether it is made by themselves or through a procurator." Personal presence now seems to be required except in the case of a procurator duly employed. But the conditions are declared in the following canon:
§ 1. With diocesan statutes added upon this matter remaining firm, in order that marriage through a procurator be entered validly, there is required a special mandate for contracting with a certain person, signed by the mandator and either by the pastor or Ordinary of the place in which the mandate is made, or by a priest delegated by either, or by at least two witnesses.
§ 2. If the mandator does not know how to write, this is to be noted in the mandate itself, and another witness is to be added who himself also signs the writing; otherwise the mandate is invalid.
§ 3. If, before the procurator has contracted in the name of the mandator, this latter has revoked the mandate or has fallen into insanity, the marriage is invalid, although either the procurator or the other contracting party was ignorant of these things.
§ 4. In order that the marriage be valid, the procurator must perform his office himself in person (Can. 1089).
Question 9. What is that which the contracting parties must not be ignorant of?
Resp. § 1. In order that matrimonial consent can be had, it is necessary that the contracting parties at least not be ignorant that marriage is a permanent society between a man and a woman for procreating children.
§ 2. This ignorance is not presumed after puberty (Can. 1082).
For without an act of the will no consent is possible; but there is no desire of a thing unknown, nothing willed unless known; and therefore, in order that there can be consent, the one consenting must not be ignorant of that into which he consents. Thus Pirhing, book IV, title 1, sect. 1, n. 85, places among the things necessary for wedlock knowledge or the judgment of discretion, by which one understands what he does.
By law sufficient discretion is presumed in those who have arrived at puberty.
Concina, Compendium
Diss. I, Chapter III — On the conditions of the mutual consent necessary to matrimony
I. QUESTION I. Whether, that matrimony be valid, the consent of each spouse be required? ANSWER. All affirm it. That consent must needs be internal, sincere and not feigned, free and not forced, immune from error, public, and manifested by an exterior sign. For in no way does internal consent suffice, unless it be manifested by an exterior sign. Because that consent is the matter of the sacrament, which must necessarily be sensible. But that consent ought to be expressed outwardly either by words, or by nods clearly indicating the internal consent. Those nevertheless sin, as a rule, who being able to speak, words being omitted, employ nods or other signs. Except girls of excessive modesty, who today occur exceedingly rarely.
II. Consent feigned and simulated internally, although outwardly expressed by words, does not suffice for matrimony. He sins mortally who contracts feignedly and simulatedly, and is bound to consent truly and sincerely. Nor is credence given in any tribunal to one asserting that he contracted feignedly and simulatedly, nor is it to be given; but rather he deserves to be struck with penalties. And simulators of this kind are by no means to be absolved, until they have given true and sincere consent.
III. If a man contracted feignedly with the first, and afterwards the simulator contract with a sincere and true mind with a second, the ecclesiastical judge commands that he remain with the first: because judgment and right bring forth sentence according to those things which appear and are presumed. For the rest, if with the first the consent was in truth before God feigned, and sincere with the second, then let him rather (says St. Thomas, Suppl., q. 45, art. 4, reply 3) sustain excommunication than approach the first wife, or he ought to flee into other remote regions. For the second in this case would be the true wife. And when certain and undoubted arguments of the feigning with the former woman appear, then the ecclesiastical judge, a penance being imposed and the loss inflicted upon the former woman being repaired, ought to absolve the guilty party and to declare the first matrimony null.
IV. Offspring received from a feigned matrimony is to be held legitimate, until the feigning be proved, as all teach. When one of the spouses knows that a former matrimony dissolved by the judge's sentence is before God valid, he cannot enter upon a second marriage.
V. QUESTION II. Whether consent extorted by fear makes matrimony null? ANSWER. Theologians distinguish manifold fear. One is grave, which is conceived concerning some grave evil imminent, as death, exile, prison, mutilation; or it can be grave from the vehement apprehension of the one fearing. To a woman an evil can be grave which to a man is slight. Slight fear is concerning a slight evil, both in itself and in respect of the person fearing. Besides, one fear arises from a natural internal cause, which impels to act for the preserving of life, or for the fleeing of eternal punishment. Another proceeds from a cause acting outwardly. And this is twofold: for either the cause acting outwardly is only an occasion, as is a tempest of the sea in respect of a merchant; or the cause directly strikes in fear, as a robber who with drawn dagger threatens death, unless money be consigned to him. Moreover another fear is just, struck in by a judge or lawful superior from a just cause; as when a judge casts the violator of a girl into prison, and binds him to take her in matrimony. Another is unjust, which is struck in without a just cause. Another lastly is reverential fear, such as is that of children toward parents.
VI. Matrimony celebrated from grave fear unjustly struck in is null and void, as all confess: because that consent extorted by such fear fights with a perpetual concord of souls and with benevolence. This matrimony is null by ecclesiastical right, most consonant with natural right, as seems to me the more probable. Matrimony on the contrary from fear justly struck in, whether from a natural and internal cause or from an external one, is valid, just as matrimony celebrated from slight fear.
VII. Hence: 1. He who takes a concubine for fear of death contracts a valid matrimony. 2. He who, justly condemned to death, if he be sought in marriage by some woman that he may decline death, contracts validly. 3. Valid also is the matrimony of him who, the judge threatening death or prison, marries the woman he deflowered.
VIII. Sempronius, having suffered an injury from Titius by theft or another crime, threatens to accuse him before a judge unless he marry such a girl: the matrimony would be null, because Sempronius has no right of compelling Titius to marry such a girl, although he has a right of accusing him for the theft. He who under an unjust fear was compelled to marry is not bound to render the debt.
IX. Matrimony entered upon under compulsion becomes valid through free consent, provided that in the other party which contracted freely the consent persevere. Temporal lords and magistrates who directly or indirectly unjustly strike in grave fear, that they may compel someone to contract matrimony, are by that very deed excommunicated by the Council of Trent, session 24, chapter 9 On Reformation.
X. Consent limited by a condition makes matrimony null. Wherefore if anyone say, I take thee as my wife, if my father shall have consented, the matrimony is null, because the condition suspends the consent. General and necessary conditions, as if you say, I will marry thee, if it shall please God, in no way suspend the matrimony. If they be impossible or shameful, which do not infect the substance of matrimony, they are held as not added. All conditions which infect the substance of matrimony make it null, as are these: I take thee as mine, if thou shalt bear me no sons, if thou shalt avoid generation, if thou shalt take the poison of sterility, if thou shalt prostitute thyself to be an adulteress. I contract with thee until I shall have found a fairer or richer. These and like conditions destroy the very substance of matrimony, and make it null.
XI. If to matrimony or to betrothals conditions be appended concerning the present or the past, the condition being posited, the betrothals and the matrimony subsist; and the condition being taken away, the betrothals and the matrimony are null: as if you say, I take thee as mine, if thou be a virgin, if thou be the firstborn, if thy parents consent, if thou be noble, if thou be legitimate. If, the matrimony being consummated, it be detected that at the time of contracting she was not a virgin, nor legitimate, nor noble, nor firstborn, the matrimony is null; nor can carnal copulation make it valid. If anyone say, I take thee as mine, if it shall please thy father, and knew that the father was dead, the condition is held as not added. But if he was ignorant of the father's death, a new consent is necessary, that the matrimony be valid. For it is null by reason of the first conditioned consent, because the condition suspends the effect. If the father live and be silent, because the contract pleases him, then the matrimony is valid. If it be detected that he is silent because it displeases him, then the contract is null. If it be doubted why he is silent, the contract is to be suspended until he declare himself. If he consent, and afterwards dissent, the matrimony is valid, provided they persevere in the will of contracting until the father's consent. There is need nevertheless of prudence, and it is to be gathered from the circumstances regarded whether the father's consent was in fact full and true. Nay, prudence dictates that these conditions, as being wellsprings of doubts, are in a contract of so great moment — namely matrimony — altogether to be rejected; and that either one must contract absolutely, or abstain from such a contract.
XII. An honourable condition contrary to the goods of matrimony makes matrimony null; as if they contract under the condition of perpetual chastity, then no right to copulation is given. But this right being taken away, the matrimony is null. Nay, although there can be conjoined with matrimony an intention of not asking the debt, yet if this be brought into an agreement, the substance of matrimony is destroyed. The Blessed Virgin and the Patriarch Joseph contracted absolutely, and mutually transferred power over their bodies, no reciprocal agreement being added, although they had the mind of abstaining from all carnal copulation, God so illuminating their minds.
XIII. Those entangled in a diriment impediment who contract, the condition being added if the Pope shall dispense, effect a conditioned marriage; but conditioned marriages of this kind are never to be admitted, whether the impediment be of those in which the Pope is wont to dispense, or of another kind.
XIV. Consent is to be expressed by those formulas of words which according to the custom of the country declare a consent true, sincere, reciprocal, and of the present, such as are these: I take thee as my wife; I take thee as my husband, and so forth.