Section — Vermeersch, On Chastity
§ 2. On the Circumstances of Morally Good Intercourse
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This chapter sets out plainly what the moral law permits and forbids to husband and wife. The authors wrote these pages for two readers only: for priests and those preparing for the confessional; and for those engaged to be married, or married, who have true need to understand the nature and obligations of marital relations. It is not reading for anyone else, and it is not reading for curiosity — the authors say so themselves, gravely and with one voice.
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The circumstances. What each signifies.
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227. - We shall consider in order the circumstances: who, why, when, in what manner, by what aids, and where. This one thing remains to be noted. To the question why, through the principal end itself and proximate, an answer can be given. But since we have now considered this, concerning the more remote or less principal and more extrinsic end something must be said in answer to the question why.