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| Neat, not vain: “Modesty of dress is not incompatible with neatness or cleanliness.” | St. Alphonsus True Spouse, ch. VIIIIn nearly the same words: Deshon Guide, ch. LXVIII |
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| One's station, without singularity: “outward apparel should be consistent with the estate of the person, according to the general custom” | St. Thomas II-II, q. 169, a. 2, ad 3In nearly the same words: Deshon Guide, ch. LXVII |
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| Contentment: “Having food and wherewith to be covered, with these let us be content” | St. Thomas II-II, q. 169, a. 1In nearly the same words: Deshon Guide, ch. LXVII |
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| A soul taken up with God: “Simply because her soul is taken up with something more important than dress.” | Deshon Guide, ch. LXVII |
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| What is spared, given to the poor: “she has the opportunity of doing something to help the wretched and afflicted poor” | Deshon Guide, ch. LXVIII |
| In walk and bearing |
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| A grave walk: “Your walk, to be modest, must be grave, neither too quick nor too slow.” | St. Alphonsus True Spouse, ch. VIIIIn nearly the same words: Bontempi On immodesty in words, gestures, j, n. 2 |
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| Without artifice, not without correction: “Let them be without artifice, but not without correction.” | St. Thomas II-II, q. 168, a. 1, ad 4 |
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| Effort supplies what nature lacks: “Let nature guide the movement: and if nature fail in any respect, surely effort will supply the defect.” | St. Thomas II-II, q. 168, a. 1, ad 2 |
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| Edifying others: “How delightful it is to do good to others by your appearance!” | St. Alphonsus True Spouse, ch. VIIIIn nearly the same words: Merkelbach II, n. 1058 |
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| A help to the other virtues: “But on the contrary, the exercise of modesty also helps much toward acquiring, preserving, and increasing other virtues” | Marc n. 410 |
| In recreation |
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| In the Lord: “But he says in the Lord; which implies that in recreation there should be moderation and modesty.” | St. Alphonsus True Spouse, ch. XXIVIn nearly the same words: Spirago The Relaxations Permitted to the Christian |
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| Nothing base or injurious: “The first and chief is that the pleasure in question should not be sought in indecent or injurious deeds or words.” | St. Thomas II-II, q. 168, a. 2In nearly the same words: Merkelbach II, n. 1060; Bontempi On immodesty in words, gestures, j, n. 23 |
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| Gravity kept: “Another thing to be observed is that one lose not the balance of one's mind altogether.” | St. Thomas II-II, q. 168, a. 2In nearly the same words: Merkelbach II, n. 1060; Bontempi On immodesty in words, gestures, j, n. 24; Vermeersch n. 736 |
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| Fitting person, time and place: “we must be careful, as in all other human actions, to conform ourselves to persons, time, and place” | St. Thomas II-II, q. 168, a. 2In nearly the same words: Merkelbach II, n. 1060; Bontempi On immodesty in words, gestures, j, n. 25; Vermeersch n. 736 |
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| After duty, and within its time: “then only when we have done our duty by grave and serious matters” | St. Thomas II-II, q. 168, a. 2, ad 3In nearly the same words: Spirago The Relaxations Permitted to the Christian; St. Alphonsus True Spouse, ch. XXIV |
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| A little salt: “but little sweetness suffices to season life, just as little salt suffices for our meat” | St. Thomas II-II, q. 168, a. 4In nearly the same words: Spirago The Relaxations Permitted to the Christian |
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| The thought of death: “The thought of death is a useful check upon indulgence in the pleasures of the senses” | Spirago The Relaxations Permitted to the Christian |
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| No jests at others' defects: “You must abstain from certain jests and jocose remarks on the real and known defects of others” | St. Alphonsus True Spouse, ch. VIII |
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| Moderate laughter: “Moderate laughter, which shows the serenity of the soul, is neither a violation of decorum nor opposed to devotion.” | St. Alphonsus True Spouse, ch. VIII |
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| Against the defect, a cheerful face: “A religious should always present an appearance of modesty and devotion, but not of sadness and melancholy.” | St. Alphonsus True Spouse, ch. VIIIIn nearly the same words: McHugh-Callan n. 2567 |
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| Gently, by persuading: “gently nevertheless, rather by persuading indirectly than by threatening directly” | Merkelbach Pastoral, Q. VIIn nearly the same words: Prümmer II, n. 717 |
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| Where he cannot dissuade, lessening the danger: “that the penitent set before himself an honorable end; preserve modesty, especially in dress, gesture, and speech” | Merkelbach Pastoral, Q. VIIn nearly the same words: Merkelbach Pastoral, Q. VI |
| The confessor's part |
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| Sharp rebuke where it incites: “But if this adornment incites to lasciviousness, then assuredly it is to be sharply censured.” | Prümmer II, n. 717In nearly the same words: McHugh-Callan n. 2570 |