Question — Bontempi, Palladium Theologicum V · from Schola Thomistica
Question V: On the obligation of parents toward their children
I ASSERT first, that fathers are bound to provide support to their children in grave necessity. Under the name of support come clothing, food, medicine, lodging, and all those things without which human life cannot go on, as Panormitanus teaches in cap. cum secundum de praebendis, as is clear from cap. non liceat, on the same title: Moreover, by the name of Fathers are understood those ascending along the paternal line, and likewise of the Mother.
ASSERO primo, teneri patres filiis in gravi necessitate alimenta praebere. Alimentorum autem nomine veniunt vestes, cibi, medicinae, habitatio, atque ea omnia, sine quibus vita humana transigi nequit, ut docet Panormit. in cap. cum secundum de praebendis, ut patet ex cap. non liceat, eodem titulo: Praeterea nomine Patrum intelligunt ascendentes per lineam paternam, et sic de Matre.
IT IS PROVED because he who gives life ought to supply the things necessary to it. It is the common opinion, as Covarruvias shows in Epit. part. 3. cap. 8. §. 6. Azor, tom. 1. lib. 2. cap. 4. Sylvester under the word alimenta.
PROBATUR quia dans vitam, debet ea, quae sunt ad eam necessaria, apponere. Est communis sententia, ut ostendit Couar. in Epit. part. 3. cap. 8. §. 6. Azor, tom. 1. lib. 2. cap. 4. Syluester verb. alimenta.
Yet the Father may, for correction, restrict the support given to his son. For he is bound to provide his children with good education and discipline by fitting means. Wherefore, even if by accident he cannot go out to hear Mass, it does not matter, as Fagundez says cap. 1. num 3.
POTEST tamen Pater, ad correctionem, alimenta filio restringere. Tenetur enim bonam educationem, et disciplinam filiis praestare, mediis accommodis: Quare, etiamsi per accidens non possit exire ad sacrum audiendum, non refert, ut ait Fagundez cap. 1. num 3.
NOTE that under the name of children are included also illegitimate ones. Wherefore parents gravely sin who, being able to support their spurious children, expose them in churches and hospitals for alms. So Fagundez num. 5. Toledo lib. 5. cap. 1. Navarr. man. cap. 14.
ADVERTE, nomine filiorum venire, etiam illegitimos. Quare graviter peccant parentes, potentes alere filios spurios, et eos exponunt in templis, hospitalibus ad eleemosynas. Ita Fagundez num. 5. Tolet. lib. 5. cap. 1. Navar. man. cap. 14.
Nor let them excuse themselves by saying that those places of the Hospitals have revenues for this end; they have them for the poor as their children. Therefore they are bound here to restitution, as Fagundez says num. 5. after Sylvester under the word Adulterium. Navarr. man. cap. 16. Rebell. p. p. de obligat. iust. lib. 3. quaest. 10.
NEQUE sic excusent dicentes, illa loca Hospitalium habere proventus ad hunc finem, habent enim eos pro filiis pauperibus. Ideo tenentur hic ad restitutionem, ut ait Fagundez num. 5. post Sylvest. verb. Adulterium. Navar. man. cap. 16. Rebell. p. p. de obligat. iust. lib. 3. quaest. 10.
Some add that spurious children are not bound to be dowered. So Panormitanus in cap. Pervenit, de arbitr. Vasquez de success. creatu. lib. 2. §. 10. num. 314. Molina Tom. 1. de iust. dub. 223. Fagundez num. 6. inclines to it, though he holds the opposite probable, which many follow.
ADDUNT aliqui, non teneri filios spurios dotare. Ita Panormit. in cap. Pervenit, de arbitr. Vasquez de success. creatu. lib. 2. §. 10. num. 314. Molina Tom. 1. de iust. dub. 223. Inclinat Fagundez num. 6. etsi oppositam probabilem censeat, quam multi sequuntur.
The reason therefore is that the argument from support to dowry does not hold.
Ratio igitur ea est, quia non valet argumentatio de alimentis ad dotem.
From what has been said it follows that fathers are bound to provide support to their children even if they contract marriage without their consent with some person. So Sanchez lib. 4. de matrim. disp. 27. Decius on the rule nuptias 30. at the end, ff. de reg. iuris, Molina lib. 2. de primog. cap. 16. Fagundez num. 10.
Ex dictis sequitur, teneri patres alimenta praestare filiis, etiamsi absque eorum consensu matrimonium ineant cum aliqua persona. Ita Sanchez lib. 4. de matrim. disp. 27. Decius in reg. nuptias 30. fine, ff. de reg. iuris, Molina lib. 2. de primog. cap. 16. Fagundez num. 10.
I ASSERT secondly, that parents are bound to provide for the right education of their children, which contains the nourishment of the mind.
ASSERO secundo, teneri parentes prospicere rectae filiorum educationi, quae alimenta animi continet.
THEREFORE they are bound to instruct them in the law of God; to keep daughters from shameless lovers, lest they allow them 'with stibium' etc. to adorn the face wantonly. Say the same of others under whose care they fall.
ITAQUE tenentur eos in lege Dei erudire; filias ab amatoribus impudicis arcere, Ne sinant eas stibio etc. ad lascive faciem ornandam, uti. Idem dic de aliis, ad quorum curam spectant.
I ASSERT thirdly, that parents cannot force their children to undertake a state of life, forcing them either to Religion or to marriage; yet for marriage there can be a grave cause. Therefore the Council of Trent session 25. cap. 18. strikes with excommunication those forcing women, girls or widows, to enter Religion, or to take the habit, or to make profession.
ASSERO tertio, non posse parentes cogere filios ad statum vitae suscipiendum, cogendo eos, vel ad Religionem, vel ad matrimonium; potest tamen ad matrimonium esse causa gravis. Itaque Concilium Trid. sess. 25. cap. 18. excommunicatione ferit cogentes foeminas puellas, vel viduas ad ingressum Religionis, vel ad habitus susceptionem, vel ad profitendum.